So what do you think? Very wrong, mostly wrong, sometime right, fair game? Please explain(justify).
My story: When I was younger I use to believe that it was wrong in all cases to steal another mans girl; however, this in combination with having a very slow process of starting relationships with girls that I had chemistry with lead me to live an existence with a low amount of prospects(as might be expected). I then choose as a function of my prayers to study the matter further, and one day my observations lend me to believe that many (especially well sought after) women had what I now call purses which are boyfriends which they are totally uninterested in but use for status and I assume protection from being hit on. In light of this, I proceeded to initiate in these situations where I felt boyfriends were merely purses to great success(if success can said to be had in situation were marriage does not result, which I have deep questions about).This idea has since expanded and continued to the ponit where there is little diffrence in my mind between a single girl and one who is currenlty dating. In all this has lead to great hardship for many men who get thrown by the wayside because of my success courting their girlfriends(as a note, I have never had the reverse happen to me). This has also resulted in much hatred at me for the dishonesty of cheating.
Here I am about to face this prospect again, and like always I am still unsure, as obviously it is not the most clear ethical thing in the world. I not one to say it is fair game, on the other hand, in this crucible of living I have found that a part being mature and responsible at times calls us to use the black. I say this firmly believing Christ our model used all types of ethics: red, white, and black.
What do you think about this matter? Is dating merely the courting stage making this fair game (like in traditional times) or in the modern era has it taken on new meaning?
My story: When I was younger I use to believe that it was wrong in all cases to steal another mans girl; however, this in combination with having a very slow process of starting relationships with girls that I had chemistry with lead me to live an existence with a low amount of prospects(as might be expected). I then choose as a function of my prayers to study the matter further, and one day my observations lend me to believe that many (especially well sought after) women had what I now call purses which are boyfriends which they are totally uninterested in but use for status and I assume protection from being hit on. In light of this, I proceeded to initiate in these situations where I felt boyfriends were merely purses to great success(if success can said to be had in situation were marriage does not result, which I have deep questions about).This idea has since expanded and continued to the ponit where there is little diffrence in my mind between a single girl and one who is currenlty dating. In all this has lead to great hardship for many men who get thrown by the wayside because of my success courting their girlfriends(as a note, I have never had the reverse happen to me). This has also resulted in much hatred at me for the dishonesty of cheating.
Here I am about to face this prospect again, and like always I am still unsure, as obviously it is not the most clear ethical thing in the world. I not one to say it is fair game, on the other hand, in this crucible of living I have found that a part being mature and responsible at times calls us to use the black. I say this firmly believing Christ our model used all types of ethics: red, white, and black.
What do you think about this matter? Is dating merely the courting stage making this fair game (like in traditional times) or in the modern era has it taken on new meaning?