Now I know this topic was probably done before but bear with me. Awhile back there was an article in the news about a 14 year old boy who was seduced by a young attractive female teacher. But get this, the boy tells the police on her and she gets busted. While none of us truly know the boys intentions for telling the police about her, maybe he just didn't want to get in trouble but still wanted to fornicate with her, maybe he thought he wasn't ready, heck he might have just been a real christian for resisting temptation. But the thing that really bothers me the most is how widely and easily accepted this type of behavior is in our society, not to mention hypocritcal.
First off, nearly everywhere I go, if this topic were brought up, I'd hear stuff like ..."oh well he's a stupid wuss for passing up a hottie like that teacher, man if I were that kid, I'd accept the offer in a heartbeat to do her". But hey if it were an older man and a 14 year old girl, no one would say that. Not to sound sexist but according to something like that, not only is fornication so disgustingly accepted but it truly is a mans world, even with all the womens rights and girl power.
Are we really old fashioned and prudish for believing in sex after marriage? Is sex the most important thing no matter what? Yeah I guess despite all the tainting satan has done to what could have been a beautiful thing, we should all believe that if you're supposedly ready you should have sex whenever you want cause it's natural and wonderful, by any means necessary. To any christian, this kid may be regarded as someone who made a wise and good decision. To the rest of the world, he's a laughed at nerd who is freakish and outcasted for his decision.
Which brings me to my next subject, what is so wrong with waiting for the right person no matter what age you are? The reason so many unwanted marriages and later becoming divorces happen is because people don't really want love, they're just afraid to die alone or they just do it because everyone else is. You shouldn't have to be pressured into getting married or dating all the time or whatever, find the right person, or heck let the right person come to you, he or she might be right around the corner in your heart. You don't even have to find someone, just be happy and positive in your own self, don't think you have to find someone, find love in a different way. If you think you can find love in this world, go for it, if you don't....then don't worry about it. There's no crime in doing what you think is right, unless you've really hurt someone.
I guess my point is, in this world gone insane, we should not forget or let die these ideals and meaningful emotions that was meant to be in the first place, in God's plan. Sex is not a toy, it's part of something bigger. Let's embrace these lost feelings and ideals and spread them to others. Let's truly live.
First off, nearly everywhere I go, if this topic were brought up, I'd hear stuff like ..."oh well he's a stupid wuss for passing up a hottie like that teacher, man if I were that kid, I'd accept the offer in a heartbeat to do her". But hey if it were an older man and a 14 year old girl, no one would say that. Not to sound sexist but according to something like that, not only is fornication so disgustingly accepted but it truly is a mans world, even with all the womens rights and girl power.
Are we really old fashioned and prudish for believing in sex after marriage? Is sex the most important thing no matter what? Yeah I guess despite all the tainting satan has done to what could have been a beautiful thing, we should all believe that if you're supposedly ready you should have sex whenever you want cause it's natural and wonderful, by any means necessary. To any christian, this kid may be regarded as someone who made a wise and good decision. To the rest of the world, he's a laughed at nerd who is freakish and outcasted for his decision.
Which brings me to my next subject, what is so wrong with waiting for the right person no matter what age you are? The reason so many unwanted marriages and later becoming divorces happen is because people don't really want love, they're just afraid to die alone or they just do it because everyone else is. You shouldn't have to be pressured into getting married or dating all the time or whatever, find the right person, or heck let the right person come to you, he or she might be right around the corner in your heart. You don't even have to find someone, just be happy and positive in your own self, don't think you have to find someone, find love in a different way. If you think you can find love in this world, go for it, if you don't....then don't worry about it. There's no crime in doing what you think is right, unless you've really hurt someone.
I guess my point is, in this world gone insane, we should not forget or let die these ideals and meaningful emotions that was meant to be in the first place, in God's plan. Sex is not a toy, it's part of something bigger. Let's embrace these lost feelings and ideals and spread them to others. Let's truly live.
