Hello, my marriage is in need of desperate help. I believe it has taken its last breath or has agaonal breaths. I have done great things wrong in our marriage (cheated once, chatting , inappropriate content) to just name some. We have now been seperated now for a month. When we got seperated she said I promise that I will not do anything about divorce until you are done with counciling. She says she is not and never will be in love with me. Me on the other hand says she is to hurt from the pain I have caused. Now she says just how much time are you asking for. Counciling will never fix the way I feel about you. She says what do you expect me to wait a lifetime thinking my feelings are going to change. Since being seperated I have gotten saved and started counciling for my anger and sexual addictions. But she says there is no turning back now. Its done. I asked what does that mean divorce papers she says yes im not going to chance my view on this. I told her she has rushed into this to sit back and wait a while and she asked how long? My aunt and uncle just went throught the same thing a few years back and they told me eventhough you get divorced it can still work out trust in GOD. I want to believe that but its to hard to think it can once the divorce is final. And to beat all we have 3 kids the oldest is 8. So if you have any advice lay it on me plus I know prayer is a powerful thing. All is welcome. thank you