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SoulSurfer said:
*sighs and looks down* I have a best best friend whose a guy but two days ago, I got kissed by a girl and I liked it. I'm afraid. I'm admitted to myself that I'm bi-curious. What should I do?

talking about it was a good choice. praying for you about this. :hug:
 
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*sighs and looks down* I have a best best friend whose a guy but two days ago, I got kissed by a girl and I liked it. I'm afraid. I'm admitted to myself that I'm bi-curious. What should I do?

you should defintely confide in someone you trust and someone you can talk to about this, but i would go to a member of your church (if you go)such as your pastor and talk to him and get his knowledge and advice about it...dont be embarassed either.:crossrc:
 
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Relax. Quite a few young people, more so girls in my experience, have some sort of "attraction" to someone of the same sex. Most often its just a hormone thing while you are adjusting to lots of new feelings from your developing sexuality. Attraction for guys is obviously there. You will settle into being throughly heterosexual I am sure.

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:wave: Hey surfer girl, non-surfing guy here - waaay too spaztik for that. NE way, regarding your post, I wouldn't be too freaked out about having enjoyed that kiss. Are you bi-curious? You're fifteen, of course you are. Having been a teenager myself and being surrounded by teenagers these days, it's not very uncommon. You're at a pivotal point in life where many things are new, wonderful, mysterious, and dare I say it, sometimes the taboo can be the most interesting of subjects. :o It's much easier these days for young girls to become curious of each other and intimate with each other because it's downright trendy these days - our culture has bred it to be glamorous almost. I agree with an earlier post, a good smooch by a guy or a girl at your age would probably give you a tingle. I've had some experience with this matter, if you want to PM me I'd be glad to listen. The long and short of it is simple, don't let it get you freaked out, sort out your feelings, pray, and seek the counsel of those you trust big time. A lot of times, I've found that pastors (no offense to any pastors) immediately condemn any question of sexuality or fetish as a sin. I'm painting with a broad brush, but that's just my personal experience. Take care lil' surfer, don't stress, God didn't design you wrong, it'll all work out. Take care and God bless. :thumbsup:
 
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Wow. thanks for all the responses. I feel better now, I'm just scared to go to my parents because I know they'll have the: "it's a phase and you don't know what your talking about" reaction. The problem is, I don't think it's a phase, in fact, for me, it isn't. I've told my cousin who understands and my best friend at school is also bi. I feel comfortable around them, but I get sick whenever I'm eating dinner with my parents cuz I feel like I'm hiding something really big. *sigh* I don't really think that I would have enough courage to talk to a pastor. I mean, I'm just scared. I don't mean to be weak or anything, it's just who I am and I can't hide that. Of course, my ex-boyfriend flipped out. I sorta figured he would, but not to the point of suicide. I had to talk him through it but I knew he still didn't accept so I broke up with him. Sometimes people just don't understand who I am and that scares me. Well, I'll see what happens. Thanks for the responses and the ones to come!
 
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Just a reminder that Recovery is not a forum to discuss whether homosexuality or bisexuality is moral or not.

This forum is ONLY for those seeking Recovery, meaning only for those wanting to change and asking for assistance. Posts that discuss something other than recovery are off topic.​
 
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