For those who have followed my earlier posts, I thank you. Life these past couple years have greatly opened my heart. I seek prayer for a hardened heart though.
Today, 8 months post-divorce and 1-year/3 months full custody of our 3 children, we had the final court hearing to determine if I can take the children out of the state. I'm military in the USAF and I'm being tranferred to California.
The ruling came down with my ex-wife receiving the month of July and Christmas break with the kiddies. Although I would have liked to seen her get more, the ball was really in her court. Had she followed the court orders and did what was in the best-interest of our kids, she would have summers completely, christmas and spring break.
I won the case, but really I lost . No one in their right mind would want to see the mother of your children treat her kids the way they've been treated. No one in their right mind would want their kids to feel abandoned by their mother. She didn't even put up a fight. She showed up to court late.
I've had all overnights with the kids since 14 February 2005. I need prayer because after seeing everything she's done to our kids and continues to do...including recently breaking up a marriage of a 30 years after an affair with the husband...she got a job at one of the biggest non-denominational churches around here. Her position is hospitality coordinator.
I have very strong mixed feelings about this and know I shouldn't. Part of me is angry. Part of me is confused. Part of me is questioning faith. Please pray that my heart weakens and opens up again to hear love speak and not anger.
Today, 8 months post-divorce and 1-year/3 months full custody of our 3 children, we had the final court hearing to determine if I can take the children out of the state. I'm military in the USAF and I'm being tranferred to California.
The ruling came down with my ex-wife receiving the month of July and Christmas break with the kiddies. Although I would have liked to seen her get more, the ball was really in her court. Had she followed the court orders and did what was in the best-interest of our kids, she would have summers completely, christmas and spring break.
I won the case, but really I lost . No one in their right mind would want to see the mother of your children treat her kids the way they've been treated. No one in their right mind would want their kids to feel abandoned by their mother. She didn't even put up a fight. She showed up to court late.
I've had all overnights with the kids since 14 February 2005. I need prayer because after seeing everything she's done to our kids and continues to do...including recently breaking up a marriage of a 30 years after an affair with the husband...she got a job at one of the biggest non-denominational churches around here. Her position is hospitality coordinator.
I have very strong mixed feelings about this and know I shouldn't. Part of me is angry. Part of me is confused. Part of me is questioning faith. Please pray that my heart weakens and opens up again to hear love speak and not anger.