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Cary.Melvin said:I assume that the Church granted you the annulment. After all you were allowed to marry your husband. What were the grounds for granting the annulment? As far as your child goes, an annulment does not make him or her "illigitimate". All children are legitimate in the eyes of the Church. Anullments also don't make your previous marriage like it "never happened" it just determines whether it was valid and lawful in the eyes of God.
I was assured that the RCC would grant the annulment. The priest and nuns that I met with in my sessions specifically said that it was their role to determine if in God's eyes the marriage "never happened". I refused to revise history in that way, rathering to repent my sins, and my husband and I agreed to marry outside the church - he has since been baptised and joined a protestant church.
The other day, we happened to do a spanish-language service at a hospital. One of the people in attendance was a priest who is a canon lawyer (he doesn't know my history). I thought it was interesting, and asked him what else tribunals deal with besides annulments. He corrected me that it's actually "determination of nullity" and went on to explain that they determine that in God's eyes the marriage "never happened". I quickly changed the subject, but I never did find out if there was anything else that they work on.
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