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For you to tell me to "get on with the learning" is rude and uncalled for ... learning is a life-long event and we are daily being transformed into the image of our Saviour ... I have yet to see anyone learn anything overnight ...
I am sorry if you were hurt by this. It was certainly not intended as a cruel or a mean statement. It was not said with the intention of being rude... it was said with the hope it might help some suffering soul to come to the place where they might be made well. I never considered wanting someone healed to be a cruel thing. I can only say that you are setting yourself up for many such hurts if you take all such comments as aimed at hurting you personally. You were not and are not the center of my intentions or my discussion. Everything I say is not about you, or aimed at you. This discussion is simply not about you personally or your personal health. It only is if you make it so.
I do find it very unfair when people enter these discussions and then use their personal conditions or the personal conditions of their loved one as "leverage" to control what is said. If you want to engage in these debate oriented discussions, then you have to exercise some understanding also. We should not have to worry about the feelings of everyone who might read the posts. If we do, then we might as well shut the board down and not say anything to anyone.
I hope you do not take this wrong... it is offered with the hopes that your feelings will be spared in the future.
For you to tell me to "get on with the learning" is rude and uncalled for ... learning is a life-long event and we are daily being transformed into the image of our Saviour ... I have yet to see anyone learn anything overnight ...
I am sorry if you were hurt by this. It was certainly not intended as a cruel or a mean statement. It was not said with the intention of being rude... it was said with the hope it might help some suffering soul to come to the place where they might be made well. I never considered wanting someone healed to be a cruel thing. I can only say that you are setting yourself up for many such hurts if you take all such comments as aimed at hurting you personally. You were not and are not the center of my intentions or my discussion. Everything I say is not about you, or aimed at you. This discussion is simply not about you personally or your personal health. It only is if you make it so.
I do find it very unfair when people enter these discussions and then use their personal conditions or the personal conditions of their loved one as "leverage" to control what is said. If you want to engage in these debate oriented discussions, then you have to exercise some understanding also. We should not have to worry about the feelings of everyone who might read the posts. If we do, then we might as well shut the board down and not say anything to anyone.
I hope you do not take this wrong... it is offered with the hopes that your feelings will be spared in the future.
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