Am I MY Brother's Keeper?

Gerry

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Oh yes indeed, but it goes far beyond that! Look at what God said in Ezekiel 3:18,19: When I say unto the wicked, Thou shalt surely die; and thou givest him not warning, nor speakest to warn the wicked from his wicked way, to save his life; the same wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood will I require at thine hand.
Yet if thou warn the wicked, and he turn not from his wickedness, nor from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity; but thou hast delivered thy soul.

Has God not said in Hebrews 9:27 “And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment”? Has He not then told the wicked? Yes, indeed! We then are therefore responsible for telling them.But that is all. Just TELL them.

Look at the Promise in Isaiah 55:11: “So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it” See! We are not responsible for the results. Every one we warn will not be saved but that is not our responsibility. If we give them God’s Word, that Word will accomplish the purpose He sent it to. They will have been warned. What they choose to do about it is not our concern. That burden is on them

But see how we are then off the hook? “…Yet if thou warn the wicked, and he turn not from his wickedness, nor from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity; but thou hast delivered thy soul.” We are free from further responsibility.

So the purpose of the warning is “to save his life”. All we have to do is tell him. It is not required that we set ourselves up as a “holier than thou” judge. We are not to condemn him. We are not to take pleasure and condemn him to hell for his sins.

Have you ever seen a Doctor, telling a terminal patient, with great joy and delight, that he is going to die? Nor should we take any such attitude. For a person to spend even a single moment in such a place as hell, is a thought to horrible to even consider.

We should warn people with concern and compassion and love, but we MUST warn them. That is the only way we are free from blood guiltiness.

God simply wants us to help everyone we come into contact with to know Jesus as their personal Saviour. In Acts 20:26, Paul declares himself innocent of blood. Look: “Wherefore I take you to record this day, that I am pure from the blood of all men. For I have not shunned to declare unto you all the counsel of God.” Paul is saying that no one can point the finger at him and say, “You never told me about Jesus when you had the chance.” Are we able to join Paul in this declaration?

Here is the bottom line: God has promised that if we do witness, even if they reject Christ, we have delivered our self from guilt and delivered our soul. Then when we stand before the judgement seat of Christ, we will be glad we fulfilled our responsibility, and we will be awarded the soul winners Crown of Rejoicing!

“For what is our hope, or joy, or crown of rejoicing? Are not even ye in the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ at his coming? I Thessalonians 2:19.
 

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Most certainly altya, we are to love our neighbor at all times. As for witnessing though we are not to be discouraged when our witness does not get the results we want. God tells us to plant the seeds and leave the harvest to Him. It may take 20 encounters with Christian witnesses over 20 years to help that person find the way to submission to God, not one of those 20 Christians played a more important role than the other!

Do not be discouraged, but share in love!
 
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I would add one of my current favorite verses I use when someone pulls the "that may be ok for you, but not for me" arguments, which leads to the Christian Complacency that has decimated the church's role in society over the past 40 years:

Leviticus 19:17
"Rebuke your neighbor, lest ye share in his guilt."

Can we love our neighbor and stand by while they hurt themselves with sin? No. The real challenge is HOW. How to do it without chasing them away or providing a poor witness to God's character. No set answers for that one.
 
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Originally posted by jrmorganjr
I would add one of my current favorite verses I use when someone pulls the "that may be ok for you, but not for me" arguments, which leads to the Christian Complacency that has decimated the church's role in society over the past 40 years:

Leviticus 19:17
"Rebuke your neighbor, lest ye share in his guilt."

Can we love our neighbor and stand by while they hurt themselves with sin? No. The real challenge is HOW. How to do it without chasing them away or providing a poor witness to God's character. No set answers for that one.


Yes, I think there are set answers for that. I think the answers are found in the Written Word of God. We are told to pray without ceasing. I think that is where we always are to start; in earnest prayer for the particular situation. And then to allow ourselves to be led and guided by the Holy Spirit in our efforts. When we are it will always be a positive message that is "custom" made for that situation.
 
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I agree, Gerry, that there is general guidance and a generic recommendation to ask for divine guidance through the Holy Spirit. Most people want a cookbook, though, or a repetoire of techniques to use to successfully evangelize. It's very difficult to deal with something that's so open, and yet this is one of those cases where you truly have to give up control. I don't find that easy, and I'm never confident that I'm not getting in the way.

In any case, prayer is good for everything and should be continual, and we should always be open to the Holy Spirit, so this advice is more for how to live than how to evangelize. Not that how we live isn't part of evangelizing.

The real issue is that we're not doing the work. We can sow the seed, but we're not capable of or responsible for converting anyone. All we can do is allow ourselves to be used, and try to be perpetually aware of what God is doing, so that when He's bringing someone to Himself, we can be an instrument.
 
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I give all thanks and praise to God for leading me to this thread today. I have been greatly troubled by whether or not I should share the gospel with my father and sister, both jaded and bitter (through ignorance) anti-Christians and pagans. I would love to share with them the misconceptions that they have aquired through other pagans and pseudo-Christians, and replace them with the true Word of our Father. Up until this point though, I was conflicted as to whether it was really any of my business to step into their spiritual lives, yet now I realize that so long as I turn a blind eye to what they say and believe, then I am indirectly supporting their awful choices. In this, I fully understand why some guilt would otherwise fall on my shoulders, knowing the truth and not sharing it, out of a misplaced sense of anxiety and fear of losing my loved ones. I know that I should fear more the loss of them for all eternity, and for as painful as this initially seems, I am moved to speak the Word of God to them so at least I can say that I had done the best that I could, regardless of the result. I just pray to God that their hard hearts are touched.

.....it's astounding how His Holy Spirit can lead you right to where you need to be to find the answers that you need.....
 
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Yes Jenna, I too Praise God for leading you to this thread today. Fo rthere are some good comments and advice here by others.

I am glad that the Holy Spirit has placed this burden for your father and sister on your heart. Perhaps he is working in their hearts as well. At any rate, even though it is true we are responsible for sharing the Gospel, it is equally true it is their responsibility what they do with it.

I think Isaiah 55:11 was one of the first verses I placed on the wall where I had to see it every day to remind me. That promises us that as long as we are faithful to present the Gospel, He will bless it and it will accomplish His will.

The truly amazing thing to me is that God requires so little of us for such Great rewards. All we are required to do is just tell. The Holy Spirit does all the rest of the work. He prepares the heart BEFORE we get there and He convicts of sin, and draws the person to Christ.

Remember this too, that when we present the Gospel, and it is rejected, that is not our fault. That is not our responsibility. Thanks Jenna, for caring!

Father, in the Name of Jesus, I ask You to Bless Jenna as she goes forth to share the Good News of Jesus with her father and sister. I ask that You send the Holy Spirit to work in their hearts and prepare them to receive the message she brings them. You have placed the burden on her heart, now place the words in her mouth and give her wisdom as she obeys Your command to go forth and bear fruit. We love You, Father, and thank You for this opportunity, and ask for a positive result by Your Grace and for the sake of our Precious Saviour, Jesus, through whose Name we pray. Amen.
 
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Thank you Gerry. I know that it is their responsibility to do what they will with the good news. :) I guess I feel that because I know that they make their judements and decisions out of ignorance, I am in some way responsible for sharing with them the truth of God's Word. There is no one else that I know who would ever bring the subject up with either of them, so I feel as though in some ways their very souls depend on whether or not I can show them the error of what other self-proclaimed witches have told them, and passed off as truth about the "cruel" Christian God.

I thank you for your prayers. :hug:
 
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WOW! I have a measure of peace now. I don't think the witches have much of a chance against your love! Wouldn't it be glorious if some of them wound up Christians too, when it is all over!!! lol! STRANGER things have happened. God bless you and all Praise to God for His unending love and mercy. I will even add this to the never ending prayer thread in the Prayer Forum.
 
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Oh, thanks. :D Instead of coloring my hair, I just placate my horrible urges to change stuff by continually changing my computer "themes" and avatars everywhere. lol I know it is awful, but it doesn't hurt anybody, not even my hairs. Heehee...... ;)
 
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LOL! Yes, that is a feminine thing! Women do love to change everything it seems, so your idea sems very acceptable! All of your avatars and pictures I have seen, definitely show that you are a very attractive young Lady! But I like this one so much because it seems to have captured a certain "sweetness" about you.

Anyway, just wanted you to know that, and believe I will be praying for your father and sister! I am so thrilled when young people are burdened for their families and friends. It gives a worn out old heart a certain joy I cannot describe!

Jesus is so Sweet and the longer I serve Him the sweeter He grows!
The more that I love Him, more love He bestows;
Each day is like Heaven, my heart overflows,
The longer I serve Him, the sweeter He grows.

My prayer is that all your family and friends will be saved!
 
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I do believe we have a responsibility to evangelize. But we aren't held responsible for someone's salvation if we don't witness to that person and she ends up in Hell, that's just ridiculous. God never allows any of His Elect to be lost, nor do the Reprobate go unpunished.
 
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