I go "out" with the girls twice a month. One time it's with my own group of girlfriends, and we usually get hot chocolate and pie, nothing crazy like chippendale's or anything. The other time is with the officer's wives club, which is at someone's home.
Hubby, is out of the country frequently, and will often go out to a bar with his crew when he's laying over in Germany or somewhere. Once in a while when he's home he likes to go out with the other pilots. I am always welcome to come if I want, but I find many of them to be offensive and prefer to be in the company of my children.