I'm so glad to have found this site. I need some unbiased opinions. I am divorced with kids. I was matched online with a wonderful mid 40s Christian man who is a virgin. Our relationship has comfortably progressed very quickly in just over a month and we are attending classes to prepare for marriage. We are not engaged. My ex gave me herpes while I was pregnant with my youngest. I don't know when I should share this information with my SO. We have 4 more weeks of classes. My child is doing well in school, but she may have some residual effects from her illness. I really didn't want to reveal her medical history until my SO got to know her a little bit more. That opportunity may be happening this weekend. Since Herpes is so prevalent today (1 in 4 sexually active-most unaware) I had not anticipated this being a problem, but I never expected to find a man in his 40's still saving himself for marriage.
The question is not if I should tell him, it's when should I tell him.
The question is not if I should tell him, it's when should I tell him.