I'm trying to write this thread so it doesn't sound like another one of those "how far is too far" threads. I will be dead honest with everyone. My girlfriend and I are deeply in love with Jesus and eachother. Yesterday we pushed our boundaries a little too far and hands (mine) wandered a bit (PG-13) We are both very confused now as to what is right and what is wrong. We are doing a Bible study tonight and are looking for conclusive scripture to lead us. It's so hard when you love a person so incredibly much and you cannot express it to them fully. We express love to one another every day through actions and words (and I know these are what counts) but at the end of the day (not necessarily literally) there is an overwhelming desire to share that feeling and committment in a more physical form.
So what is considered of a sexually immoral nature? (please no opinions, I want words from the divinely written book!) I highly doubt there is a concrete answer because couples differ so much.
Also where does lust and love separate in any physical act? I mean husbands and wives obviously desire the other's body the same as unmarried people, but is this not lust? is it right just because of the committment of marriage? because they truely love one another?
Her and I both really want to follow God's ways but we definitely don't want to hold back because of legalism created by society.
What are you thoughts/arguments/insights?
So what is considered of a sexually immoral nature? (please no opinions, I want words from the divinely written book!) I highly doubt there is a concrete answer because couples differ so much.
Also where does lust and love separate in any physical act? I mean husbands and wives obviously desire the other's body the same as unmarried people, but is this not lust? is it right just because of the committment of marriage? because they truely love one another?
Her and I both really want to follow God's ways but we definitely don't want to hold back because of legalism created by society.
What are you thoughts/arguments/insights?