HELP-Unequally yoked??

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Godsgurl4ever2006

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hey,
I have had a boyfriend of one month and i helped lead him to Christ about a year ago and he can't come to church because he is catholic, and his parents won't let him until he is 18.The thing is that now i am not sure he still believes because he doesn't act at all like he does believe, and i am scared to ask him if he does for fear that he does and i would sound really stupid.In 2nd Corinthians it says "be ye not unequally yoked". what do yall think i should do?

Note: This post is not meant to offend anyone who may be cotholic and i am very sorry if it does.
 
Hello, I know where you are coming from because I'm going through the same problem right know with my fiance. He is Seventh Day Adventist. They believe in keeping the Sabbath holy and goes to church on Saturday. Well what you have to do is pray and ask God to show you a sign if he is the right one for you. Ask God to make it so clearly that you won't have a doubt in your mind about it. My fiance parents say that Im supposed to follow him in his church. They call that being submissive. But that doesn't have anything to do with Submissive. If you don't agree with what he is doing then just pray about it. Instead of you following him God can have him follow you. I hope I been some help.
 
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Read Luke 13:6-9

Its a parable pertaining to a tree which beareth no fruit, the Lord says to dig around it and dung it, or in other words fertilize it and try to help it grow, if it still doesn't then cut it down and be done with it.

Try to help your friend grow in the Lord, if he still doesn't then let him go and dont let him drag you down.
 
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>>My fiance parents say that Im supposed to follow him in his church. They call that being submissive. But that doesn't have anything to do with Submissive.

Women are to be under the authority of their father or their husband. So they should follow their husband as the spiritual leader in the home. If a women does not agree with a man on spiritual issues, then they should not get married. If she is going to be in rebellion against the authority of her husband, than that is going to case a lot of problems for her. Not the least is that her children may follow her example and be rebellious.
 
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