Velcro
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Electric Sceptic said:Of course. Healthy people don't 'submit' to others. Obviously, on a given issue, one person may well 'submit' to the other. But when one person is always 'submitting', that's not healthy.
Then we disagree. Are we amazed?!? Hee-hee!
But as a believer, when I do submit, it is a fresh decision each time. He, too, submits to me. This is the way it should be in the life we have consciously chosen. A further item that will likely drive you nuts or make you want to throw up: in 17 years of marriage, we have never fought or argued. We do, however, disagree and we debate but for the sake of reasoning, never with the intention of putting the other down.
Do I get my way? You bet! And he does, too. And when things are not working right, I pray and wait -- and yes, they end up turning out right.
Ah, we mindless, pollyanna believers . . . but what a life!
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