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I ask you my Christan brothers and sisters, to assist me with any advice that you all may have.
Originally posted by altya
The very first step is to start with forgiveness and by you. The day when you repented from your sin God forgive ALL your sin, not only from the past but the future as well. Between you and God there is no condemnation anymore. Ask yourself, who is condemning you. You will find out that it is you, yourself and start working on that. God forgave to never think about our sins anymore, who are you then to condemn yourself. Make peace with yourself and see yourself through Gods eyes. Second forgive anyone who you feel did you wrong like this ex-girlfriend. If you do not forgive God cannot forgive you. Spend time in prayer and ask God to show you exactly what you have to pray for. Forgive your wife for hurt that she may have caused you, forgive her for letting your marriage fall apart and everything that comes to your mind while praying. Some people also need to forgive God. Its a normal flesh reaction to blame God for our mistakes and disappointments in life. Forgive yourself but also do bear in mind that God forgive all our sins but we pay the consequences of our wrong doings. I see that you already started to walk with God again but please dont do this because you want your wife back but do it because you love God.
Forgiveness is a favor you do for yourself because forgiveness is the very first step to healing. You cannot get inner healing while you still blame yourself for all that had happened. You where wrong, you did repented, God removed your sin as far as the east is from the west, and now its time for you to move on.
Father God, I pray that You will take him through this path of forgiveness. Help him to forgive himself, help him to cope with the consequences of his own wrong doings.
Give him the strength to walk in your love and forgiveness.
Give him the power to overcome all accusation that comes to him.
Give him the courage to move forward daily.
Father I ask that you will release your healing power upon this man, heal his soul for this pain he cannot bear any longer.
Father I ask that you saturate his wife and children in your awesome love and peace.
Father God, if its possible please start with a great restoration plan in this marriage. I ask all above in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Savior. - Amen
Originally posted by amie
Hi angelgabriel,
yes unfortunately you are right my friend...these days will seem like an eternity. But, you are silently gaining strength everyday, even though it does not feel that way. We are all praying both for and with you ALWAYS. Don't give up on her, your heart tells you not to, and keep praying (I know you are) it will do wonders for your soul. I love you and I am right there beside you, walking with you. Cry, vent, complain, let it all out...I am following this experience you are going through, to the end...it will be a beautiful outcome. I love you and I am here for you
your friend
Amie