My ex-girlfriend and I are going through a separation. Those of you that have read my other threads know some about it. Anyway, in this relationship there were a lot of signs telling me the relationship was right. The Lord provided when I needed strength, money, time, and so much more. I even remember one day when we had had an argument and I was going down there to straighten things out, I saw a cross drawn in the sky, and the tail of it pointed to where she was, where I was going. And when I got there we sorted things out and it was so much better.
Anyway, now her Mom has split us up again. There were a lot of lies in our relationship to her Mom (her Mom, who I've never met due to her Mom's choice, doesn't want us together because my Mom's side of the family is Jewish, even though my family is Christian) I digress. God gave me all the signs to stay in the relationship, brought me through all the difficult times. I always prayed that if the relationship was to be over, let our hearts be hardened, let difficulty come, let my finances not be met, something. But instead it was all laid out for me. For us.
But now I'm finding out that she's given up and has let her Mom take over her life, and indeed is letting her Mom make all the decisions (yet another long long story) I will admit the mistakes of our relationship, but now I ask the Lord that if our relationship is over, let me see a sign to end it. Let me see a sign from him that I am to heal my heart, move on to be ready for his will. I just want to know that I'm on his path.
I just question if God is doing a work in her family, if I'm to pray and wait, which I know most of you will say is wrong. Or am I to move on. Is this my punishment for the mistakes of our relationship. One mistake of our relationship is that we became of one flesh (good biblical term there for all the kiddies to not understand!) Anyway, I know it was wrong of us to do this, and I know that biblically most would consider that married in all but paper. But now she's torn from me, if I go near her her Mom will hurt her even more.
The last we communicated we decided to break things off until we could be together in truth. It was very amicable and we were both happy to be moving further in the Lord's will to not be living in lies. But the next day her Mom found out I was in the same city (for a car event) and came down on her again, and then it got even worse for her.
Blah, long post yet again John. If you're still reading and can help me, how do I interpret the fact that God's signs were with our relationship? Was it mistake or me seeing what I wanted to see? And now do I not deserve a sign? I don't know, I just feel so lost.
Anyway, now her Mom has split us up again. There were a lot of lies in our relationship to her Mom (her Mom, who I've never met due to her Mom's choice, doesn't want us together because my Mom's side of the family is Jewish, even though my family is Christian) I digress. God gave me all the signs to stay in the relationship, brought me through all the difficult times. I always prayed that if the relationship was to be over, let our hearts be hardened, let difficulty come, let my finances not be met, something. But instead it was all laid out for me. For us.
But now I'm finding out that she's given up and has let her Mom take over her life, and indeed is letting her Mom make all the decisions (yet another long long story) I will admit the mistakes of our relationship, but now I ask the Lord that if our relationship is over, let me see a sign to end it. Let me see a sign from him that I am to heal my heart, move on to be ready for his will. I just want to know that I'm on his path.
I just question if God is doing a work in her family, if I'm to pray and wait, which I know most of you will say is wrong. Or am I to move on. Is this my punishment for the mistakes of our relationship. One mistake of our relationship is that we became of one flesh (good biblical term there for all the kiddies to not understand!) Anyway, I know it was wrong of us to do this, and I know that biblically most would consider that married in all but paper. But now she's torn from me, if I go near her her Mom will hurt her even more.
The last we communicated we decided to break things off until we could be together in truth. It was very amicable and we were both happy to be moving further in the Lord's will to not be living in lies. But the next day her Mom found out I was in the same city (for a car event) and came down on her again, and then it got even worse for her.
Blah, long post yet again John. If you're still reading and can help me, how do I interpret the fact that God's signs were with our relationship? Was it mistake or me seeing what I wanted to see? And now do I not deserve a sign? I don't know, I just feel so lost.