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This was just something that came to me...
My grandfather (who is a minister) has on his medical charts that he is a DNR (do not resuscitate). He has been diagnosed with heart disease, emphysemia, and diabetes as well as being a widower. He has a pacemaker and is on O2 regularly.
Here's my question for you, is it moral to let him die or would it be right to resuscitate him? Where I live, the law says that even if the patient is a DNR on their charts, the family can still request that he be resuscitated and a medical worker would have to comply.
My family and I are in disagreement with this. I think it would be best with all his health problems that we should acknowledge his wishes. Yes, I love him, but I know he is extremely ill and I think that resuscitation would not be helping him. However, my mother (a Catholic) and my uncle (a Church of Christ minister) believe that to not do so would be tantamount to murder.
When I ask why, I am told that since I am not a Christian I couldn't understand.
Is there any Christian who could maybe explain about this? I would ask my grandfather, but I don't want to upset him.
My grandfather (who is a minister) has on his medical charts that he is a DNR (do not resuscitate). He has been diagnosed with heart disease, emphysemia, and diabetes as well as being a widower. He has a pacemaker and is on O2 regularly.
Here's my question for you, is it moral to let him die or would it be right to resuscitate him? Where I live, the law says that even if the patient is a DNR on their charts, the family can still request that he be resuscitated and a medical worker would have to comply.
My family and I are in disagreement with this. I think it would be best with all his health problems that we should acknowledge his wishes. Yes, I love him, but I know he is extremely ill and I think that resuscitation would not be helping him. However, my mother (a Catholic) and my uncle (a Church of Christ minister) believe that to not do so would be tantamount to murder.
When I ask why, I am told that since I am not a Christian I couldn't understand.
Is there any Christian who could maybe explain about this? I would ask my grandfather, but I don't want to upset him.