Hi, my name is Tabitha. I am a stay at home mom of a 4 year old daughter and 2 year old son. I have a problem, and need help. I don't know how to set boundaries with my children about anything. Right now, I feel like I have no control whatsoever. They get into everything, they have no respect for other people's belongings, and my stuff is generally what suffers. My son, and I know this is part of being a two year old, firmly believes that a toy box full of toys is insulting. He prefers the toys be all over the floor and the box empty. Yesterday, they got into the Christmas decorations, I had them put up high in the closet, and some of them got destroyed. Instead of playing with their toys, they play with my movies, books, tapes, everything under the sun, except their toys.
I have tried the following, and nothing has worked:
spanking, yelling, time outs, talking, redirecting. I don't like spanking the children, it's not something that I do often. I've tried taking away toys, bribing, standing in the corner. If someone out there has any ideas, or knows what I should do, tell me, I will do it. I am at a loss here, and my sanity is in jeopardy. I really appreciate any help. Thank you.
Tabitha
I have tried the following, and nothing has worked:
spanking, yelling, time outs, talking, redirecting. I don't like spanking the children, it's not something that I do often. I've tried taking away toys, bribing, standing in the corner. If someone out there has any ideas, or knows what I should do, tell me, I will do it. I am at a loss here, and my sanity is in jeopardy. I really appreciate any help. Thank you.
Tabitha