I'm a new mother of an 8-month-old boy. From the time he was born, I have been struggling with some serious PPD. I am currently taking Zoloft for it. It has helped take the edge off some, but not much.
I don't think I am cut out for motherhood. Don't get me wrong; I LOVE my son dearly, but sometimes, I can't stand him It literally hurts me to say that. He doesn't sleep through the night, although I have tried EVERYTHING to get him to. He wakes up early EVERY MORNING, like around 5am. He stays exhausted from lack of sleep. He won't nap. For example, he's been up since 4am and has had one 10 minute nap. It's 10am. Right now he's in his crib screaming his head off because he's so overtired. I tried rocking him to sleep and he just fights it. I've read all the books and have done what I can for this child and am at my wit's end with him. He whines pretty much all day from being so sleepy. He wants to be held all of the time.
I'm just to the point where I am scared I might hurt him. I put him in his crib when I start getting really angry but there's something inside of me that wants to hurt him really bad. I HATE myself for it; I HATE admitting this. I feel so AWFUL and it HURTS.
My husband does help out but I stay at home with him all day. I breastfeed so I'm the main one that deals with him at night. I have no relatives here that can help me.
I'm just getting to the point I regret having him. I wanted to have children but I didn't realize it would be so bad. Everyone keeps telling me it'll get better, this too shall pass, blah blah blah, but it's not! My husband feels the same way I do. It's so bad that we don't want to EVER have another child, that we are not even having sex for fear of me getting pregnant.
I've tried praying but all I hear is silence. What more can I do??
I don't think I am cut out for motherhood. Don't get me wrong; I LOVE my son dearly, but sometimes, I can't stand him It literally hurts me to say that. He doesn't sleep through the night, although I have tried EVERYTHING to get him to. He wakes up early EVERY MORNING, like around 5am. He stays exhausted from lack of sleep. He won't nap. For example, he's been up since 4am and has had one 10 minute nap. It's 10am. Right now he's in his crib screaming his head off because he's so overtired. I tried rocking him to sleep and he just fights it. I've read all the books and have done what I can for this child and am at my wit's end with him. He whines pretty much all day from being so sleepy. He wants to be held all of the time.
I'm just to the point where I am scared I might hurt him. I put him in his crib when I start getting really angry but there's something inside of me that wants to hurt him really bad. I HATE myself for it; I HATE admitting this. I feel so AWFUL and it HURTS.
My husband does help out but I stay at home with him all day. I breastfeed so I'm the main one that deals with him at night. I have no relatives here that can help me.
I'm just getting to the point I regret having him. I wanted to have children but I didn't realize it would be so bad. Everyone keeps telling me it'll get better, this too shall pass, blah blah blah, but it's not! My husband feels the same way I do. It's so bad that we don't want to EVER have another child, that we are not even having sex for fear of me getting pregnant.
I've tried praying but all I hear is silence. What more can I do??