Well I've seen everything now. He doesn't pay support, hasn't seen the inside of her school in over 4 yrs but has an appt with her school counselor tomorrow all of a sudden and she finally confided in me that he wants her to come live with him. :o We were married 16 yrs. and my oldest chose to live with him so he wouldn't be alone..she's a mother hen type and now he's FINALLY remarried to a very nice woman, who has money and they've bought her clothes shoes socks EVERYTHING..which of course is wonderful <especially since he doesn't pay support WHICH was an agreement we had since we both had one child each it would wash itself out, only he'd still be paying alot longer than I would but I said ok> BUT he instructed her she's to leave it there! In other words getting ready for her to move in? She's got SO much going on medically, that in itself is enough for another thread, but she has epilepsy, a bladder problem going on for almost 2 yrs., and so on, that I've taken her to EVERY Dr's appt., test, surgery she's had. He doesn't even know the Dr's names???? Could yall please please pray for me on this. I have to depend on the Lord getting me thru only seeing my oldest every other weekend...it nearly kills me but lose my baby? I can't take it. Thanks for listening and I'm sorry this is so long!