Recent content by Zatek

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    How can I get rid of the desire to have a wife and children

    Sexual desire is how God designed men. Sexual desires is what motivates a man to go out and meet women. Use your sexual desires for good, to motivate you to work hard and go out and be social. Don't waste it on immorality like inappropriate content and women you're not married to. If you are a shy loner then...
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    Gaining Weight: Wrong or Right

    If you are gaining fat (around your gut) and not muscle (around your shoulders or quads), then you are most definitely overeating. What you eat does not matter in gaining weight, only calories. What you eat affects your health and how you feel, and people who feel bad tend to eat more, but if...
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    Oil gone in 19 years-- what next?

    The top result on Google, which is by no means conservative, says there is 53 years of oil left of known oil at current consumption. Odds are high that even more will be found and no one alive today will see the end of oil. And even if that is all the oil left, people will gradually discover...
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    Where do I look for a wife?

    I disagree. Change is rare. The overwhelming majority of people never change. People only think the other person changed because the newness and excitement of a new relationship, marriage, sex, etc, often causes people to overlook the flaws the other person has. Then once all the excitement...
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    Where do I look for a wife?

    So then... you agree with me? I already stated that crime is low in modern civilized society, but that does not negate the biological urge women have for a strong man that makes them feel safe. Women cannot overcome that attraction anymore easily than a man can just brush aside attraction to...
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    Where do I look for a wife?

    If your spouse dies you are classified as a widow, not single. Only a fraction of 1% of pregnancy are from rape the other >99% of pregnancies were women who chose to have voluntary sex. Obviously I'm talking about the >99% majority, not the <1% exception. That's your number one job as a future...
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    Do you think it is possible for a guy and girl to be in love yet still be just friends?

    Never be friends with a woman if your interest is romantic. A lot of times the romantic interest will fade and then you don't care anymore, and you can be friends or not be friends, whatever. As long as you still have romantic interest though, not friends. If she is asking you to hang out as...
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    Where do I look for a wife?

    I haven't said anything rude, I've simply told you the truth. If you want to keep doing the same things you've been doing the past 40 years then go ahead, but you already know where that road ends. The OP is confused about a lot of things, but not wanting to date a single mom is not one of them...
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    Alabama Has The Worst Poverty In The Developed World, U.N. Official Says

    Cost of living has nothing to do with what I wrote. If you are living below the standard of living that you have for yourself then study, learn more job skills, and get a better paying job. The article alleges these people are victims of some mysterious human or civil rights violations, but...
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    Where do I look for a wife?

    120? Is that a typo? 120 is not in good shape at all, unless maybe you are 5 ft tall? I am a little short at 5'9" and I am 170 with visible abs. You seriously need to hit the gym if you are 120 lbs. I'm not trying to be mean, just being real with you. The "you'll make some other woman very...
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    How should I handle this situation?

    Well the fact that she was dating you before you were a Christian, and even engaged to you?, shows she's not a very strong Christian. Maybe she changed, you didn't say, but if you're serious about being a Christian then why would you want to date a woman who dates non-Christians? When someone...
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    Where do I look for a wife?

    You have to get out and be social and have hobbies. Yes, going to church and being a Christian is important, but there are millions of Christian men out there so if being a Christian man is the only thing you have to offer a woman then you're going to get lost in the crowd. Once you have goals...
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    Does Jesus love unconditionally? Jesus says, "No"!

    Love has many different meanings and different words in different languages. If you aren't clarifying what different greek or hebrew words you're citing and what your interpretation of it is then this discussion is going nowhere.
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    Kentucky school district just voted to let teachers carry concealed guns

    Forced to raise kids in a government approved manner? No. Forced to be held responsible for crimes committed by your children as long as they live in your house? Yes. Part of being a parent is making sure your kid doesn't murder 17 innocent people, if they do you go to jail. If you can't handle...
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    Contacting my father

    Be happy for him that he turned his life around and turned to Christ, but that's all. You are an adult now and any chance he had to be your father is already gone because you are no longer a child. He already has his own friends and mentors in life to help guide him. He is not and never was your...