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Recent content by WrightMe

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    get less over time

    Thanks so much for sharing. I want to be better. Even with disassociation, I feel like it happens involuntarily. I guess I just keep moving through it one day at a time. Sometimes it has been hard to trust God because I was abused by my earthly dad, so I can triggered with thinking about...
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    weird or relatable?

    Sometimes when I relax and seemed to be more grounded, a thought will pass through my mind like, "what if words aren't good?" or "what if existence isn't good?". Tonight at the store, I felt depressed and as I shopped, I had the startling thought, "why do I even invest in shopping as though...
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    Question

    I have experienced that and it is super upsetting--a symptom of ocd. Trying to envision the thoughts floating through your mind just like any other normal thought helped. It is hard because they are scary, but you didn't act on them before so you can have confidence in yourself. I have heard...
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    get less over time

    I deal with bad anxiety, which comes in episodes. When I am in it, I feel depressed and it is hard to feel hope and believe Jesus can heal me. It feels hard to believe that I am any better than 10 years ago when I started counseling for it. During it, I start to disassociate in spots and start...
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    the wounded heart

    Thanks for that tip
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    looking for people who get it. CSA

    Comfort, commiserate-CSA victim I am a mom who is dealing with PTSD (I think) as a result of CSA. Over the past month, I have dealt with terrible anxiety, feelings of disassociating, and negative thinking. I have been and am currently in counseling for this and see a psychiatrist for...
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    Comfort, commiserate-CSA victim

    I am a mom who is dealing with PTSD (I think) as a result of CSA. Over the past month, I have dealt with terrible anxiety, feelings of disassociating, and negative thinking. I have been and am currently in counseling for this and see a psychiatrist for help too. I just want to vent about how...