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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    I had to move out of my sister in law's house. There is just too much I just can't ignore living there. Again, they were very gracious for taking me in and defending me as they did but their home is no place to raise a special needs child. The longer we stayed there, the more my child became...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    Well, the divorce is in process now. My husband and my in laws are fighting me on custody and it looks like it will be drawn out. Charges against my sister in law's husband have been dropped for the most part except for the public intoxication charge and I think he doing community service for...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    Funny you should say that about my sister in law's husband. I have actually been thinking about his character a lot and I am really beginning to understand him a lot more. Honestly listening to him and interacting with him is giving me a whole new perspective on how some people grow to dislike...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    No, this is actually very par for the course. Although my sister in law's husband has done more than I deserve to protect me, the fact remains he is still a major jackass. He rubs people the wrong way, he is extremely belligerent and he isn't exactly unknown to the local police. "Hootenannies"...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    Unfortunately the police report has my husband listed as the victim. My sister in law's husband was the one who got charged with assault. This was due to the proponderence of evidence that my sister in law's husband not only instigated the situation but was looking to cause injury to my husband...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    All this was taken care of yesterday. For now I am staying still with my sister in law and her husband. There are now criminal trespass warnings all around. My in laws and husband are not allowed over at this house and my sister in law's husband is not allowed over at theirs. For now my sister...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    That I know but the "so help you God" part still bothers me
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    @Papias and @Endeavourer, we had a rather interesting weekend. It ended with the children both finding out why we don't live at home any more, my husband going to the ER, a protective order, and my sister in law's husband being arrested. On Friday my husband and my father in law demanded that I...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    That's what I hope. But like they say, pray for the best but plan for the worst. My husband has contacted me and is threatening legal action for keeping his son away from him. He is threatening to go to authorities and tell them that I have my son staying in a home with a man who has been...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    I guess in introspection I am wondering how it is so much worse. Part of this has to do with making my self more comfortable with my son spending time with his father. I am under no illusions here, I know the is no legal way for me to completely prevent my son from seeing his father. My husband...
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    HELP!my husband is really not who I thought he was

    I don't know if my hosts claim Christianity or not. They seem very secular in that they don't talk about Christianity or Christ one way or another. They seem to have really no strong opinion on the religion in general. I know they don't go to church and we never talk about religion period. They...
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    what is better?

    Ah I understand now what your point is. Now how about this. Would the Lord find the actions of my mother and father in law displeasing at all? They insist on always keeping the law yet they insist I return to my husband.
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    what is better?

    This is actually part of my philosophical, theological question. I ask only for introspection. I know all fall short of glory and all need Christ. But for my own theological understanding let me rephrase my question how would you contrast a person who stands in defiance of "if you live me you...
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    what is better?

    But that's the thing, that didn't really answer anything for me. ... essentially I was betrayed by my husband and then turned away by my legalistic inlaws. Depending on his you interpret scripture they did nothing wrong. They follow the law and they are asking me to "forgive" my husband because...
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    what is better?

    Hi all, I recently experienced a rather major upheaval in my marriage involving inappropriate contentogaphy, death fetishes and hypocrisy. I have received a lot of wonderful support and advice from the marriage forum. One of the replies I received are as follows and it really made me wonder a theological point...