Recent content by white dove

This is not my thread but I thought I'd bump it anyway. It's funny how I came across this one.. I thought about posting in the hello/goodbye thread but we all know those are pointless anyway. ;) This seems more fitting anyhow. You know, it's been years since I even visited; shocking that I'd...

I wish docs were included! Can I include docs? I probably have terrible taste in movies compared to you all and I have a difficult time with this question. A few that come to mind: Equilibrium Wanted Like Father Like Son World War Z Inhale Jesus of Nazareth Appropriate Behavior Rocky Balboa...

Such a thing has neeeever happened here before. ;) This doesn't sound like an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] at all. Simply being turned on, being easy to turn on and having a really high sex drive does not equate an orgasmic experience. A person understands that when they've had one (or more). Not even comparable...

YES @ the advice above. I'd also recommend giving yourself a 'time out' to cool down. Being busy, sometimes things just flow from one thing to the next with no breaks in between. It's easier to get strung out and impulsive with your reactions that way. Taking time, even for a moment, to...

Some of these are valid concerns, but if any of these are truly troubling to you and if it's really that much of a hang up to you, you're just not ready to date a single mom. You're just not. If you think of single moms and the term 'baggage' comes to mind or you think of 'red flags', again...

Modeling, encouragement and repetition. Make sure you make them aware of the expectations, then reinforce that expectation.

I agree with this so much. Even in my 30's I know I shouldn't be self-deprecating and go on about how old I am but I do! I should recall how I felt at 25 - oh so 'old' and yet looking and feeling great. I always thought I'd be married, have an established career and kids in my 30's (cuz having...

Sadly, in 2009 I was actually living a very selfish life, wasting a lot of time and regressing in many ways. Happily, that is not the case today. :)

4 For the word of the Lord is right, And all His work is done in truth. 5 He loves righteousness and justice; The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord. 6 By the word of the Lord the heavens were made, And all the host of them by the breath of His mouth. Psalm 33 4-6

Facebook is about as real as 99% of blogs (or vlogs) out there. It will only show you what the person wants to show you. You'll only see smily, happy people holding hands (or owning hams, however the song goes). This goes for people who post limitless Instagram selfies (flawless!), numerous...

This is an incredibly difficult question (so I can add nothing of real value unfortunately). I am so very much like you in that I could almost mirror your thoughts exactly. I'm in my 30's but I still think about this and how much of an impact such a question should have on my dating life. I...

Maturity level means a lot. If he can't take care of himself, can't cook, doesn't do his own laundry, lives with his mother/sister/cousin/roommate, doesn't clean up after himself, doesn't take responsibility for himself, his life or his choices his age doesn't even matter. I'd always been...

No, I wouldn't.

You could always Skype. Then, go on Catfish to make sure everything's on the up and up. If so, you could work out the details at that point.