Recent content by Vitari

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    Autism and Christianity: An Ethnographic Intervention

    As I have said in previous comments, I am not an aspie but my husband is. The problem of feeling a total disconnect, including with christian brothers and sisters is not confined to aspies! I have been a christian for over 50 years and have always had problems in this area. The shortest...
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    Statement of Purpose Recovery Guidelines Updated 6/2/13

    Have you tried googling - I think there may be a Christian Aspie facebook page? But isn't it a good idea for aspies to not only have their own space, but to also try and engage with the non- aspie world? (I speak as the wife of an aspie)
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    Need a Church to feel loved

    Over thinker - you probably are "over thinking" this! Your primary relationship and intimacy should be with Jesus. That is the best base to work from. You can bring all these worries to Him in private and He will understand and help. You seem to be doing quite well at coffee stands - maybe...
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    Need a Church to feel loved

    Test, in my own experience, I asked Jesus into my life about 50 years ago, entirely by faith. It took years for me to actually get to know Jesus. It is like any relationship really. For example, you may be attracted to a member of the opposite sex and you start going out with them. That is...
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    Comment by 'Vitari' in media 'Image'

    Jesus died on the Cross even for you altassalta. He love you. We are all sinners just like you but when any one of us comes to Jesus He can free us and destroy the works of the devil in our lives.
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    Help wanted from Christian born-again aspergers men please

    Very interesting book. Thanks.
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    Help wanted from Christian born-again aspergers men please

    Thanks to people who have replied. Being fairly new here, I dont seem to have a PM facility!
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    Help wanted from Christian born-again aspergers men please

    Thanks for response. There is a problem in the UK as very few resources exist for Aspies. We are way behind other countries and professionals, doctors, church leaders, counsellors simply know nothing about it.
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    How to... when father doesn't give a crap?

    Guerrier, living your life day by day, year by year, with Jesus will result in emotional healing eventually. You may not relate well to your Heavenly Father at this stage, confusing Him with your earthly father. That's ok. Just trust Jesus for now, but at some stage Jesus will heal and give you...
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    How to... when father doesn't give a crap?

    King David doesn't seem to have had a great relationship with his father (or his siblings)
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    Connecting with Honest Believers

    AsherMBS, I hope you find the type of church you are looking for, as well as a roof over your head. However, there are no promises in the bible that say other believers will help you or solve your problems. The promises to you are all about God. About Jesus being faithful to you and being your...
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    AS/NT Marriage Woes

    Thanks Theodiskaz. You may like to have a look at my post "Help wanted from Christian born-again aspergers men please" ? My husband needs some aspergers Christian men to correspond with.
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    Help wanted from Christian born-again aspergers men please

    Hi I'm an NT married to an aspergers man. I've been a Christian for about 50 years but my husband only gave his heart to the Lord a couple of months ago. We are struggling - I'm suffering from post concussion syndrome and very depressed, and our communication is not very good at the best of...
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    AS/NT Marriage Woes

    Hi Theodiskaz Who wrote the "love languages book" please and I'll look into it
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    I feel horrible, i blew up at my grandaughter

    sorry I'm new too and I posted twice!