Recent content by SmileAndAHandshake

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    "The Pill" turns 50

    Used to be for it, until I found out its been making me clinically depressed for almost 10 years. Fun times. I've been off it for a year now and better for it... we're sterilized now, much better than hormones I have to put into my body.
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    movie choice

    ... I ... wait ... are these the only choices? Ok well, I never watched The Neverending Story. Sounds long ;) -- But "Honey, I shrunk the kids" was mildly entertaining at best. I'd almost vote for TNS just because I think just about any movie could have danced circles around it.
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    Speaking Of Weddings. . .

    I used to be close with my dad ages ago, but I wasn't at the time of my wedding. I strongly considered having no one give me away. I had been out here for 6 years after all and hadn't seen my family in about that long if not longer. I certainly didn't feel it necessary to be walked down the...
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    Vegas isn't such a bad idea

    I second the tasering ... Motion passed. Move to recommend places we may procure a large amount of tasers D: Bridezillas drive me nuts :doh:
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    Vegas isn't such a bad idea

    We were married by a Justice of the Peace but had a wedding a month later "for the family". Lemme just say that it was NOT worth it... and if I could do it over again, I'd have taken all that money and gone on a cruise :cool:
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    Hair or no hair?

    Bald can be great, but it depends on the person. Some people look horrible with no hair. If you wanna see if you do or not, I say shave it. It's just hair.. it'll grow back :D My husband says he's gonna shave his head the second he naturally starts going bald, LOL
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    "Good man" is an oxymoron

    Urgh... Know how many times I've heard that one? :D I lot :doh: -- And now I'm 28, married, and I still don't have my blank together ;) But luckily the guy I found doesn't much care about that. In the end, the only thing that statement means (you don't have your crap together) is that this guy...
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    Insight

    It's a personal decision that should be discussed between you and your future partner really. Whomever you meet and begin to date, you'll need to figure out how you both feel about it. There is no right or wrong answer. It's all about how you personally feel, and how it will impact the...
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    If you could take another spouse would you?

    Nope. The more people you add, the more complicated it gets. No thanks.
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    STD's

    I think it's illegal in some places not to inform your partner you have an incurable STD.. I'm pretty sure you can incur jailtime for that if the person transmits it to the uninformed partner O.o; At least when HIV is involved, there can be jailtime. If you think about it, it's basically like...
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    I am so angry and hurt by my husban's actions...I need advice!

    - Call the police and file a report for the abuse if it's recent. No court in the land is going to award custody of your kids to an abuser, but you should try to provide some kind of proof, accusations alone are hard to go on. - Collect all your vital documents. Birth certificates and such...
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    New Music

    I use a band I like as a model, then I use a service online that suggests similar artists to me (there are lots of different ones out there that can make suggestions). Then I'll build off of the suggestions as well, and I just go from there. I'll youtube music first to see if I'm really...
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    Two Edged Sword

    All right, I've read the original post approximately 23 times over and over and I still have not a clue what it's trying to say. I always knew "double edged sword" to be simply that any action can have favorable or unfavorable consequences. You could kill your enemy with one end, or kill...
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    I don’t know what to believe.

    Long thread.. I don't have nearly as much input to give, just something directed at the title of the threadL Believe what you can test to be true for yourself. If it's not true, then let it go. That's all. *shrugs*
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    Making fun of each other

    Constantly ^_^