Recent content by Serving4Christ

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    Single dad of three kiddies ages 11, 6, and 3

    What you say sounds reasonable! I do involve them in chores, sometimes. Other times, it becomes more of a chore involving them and cleaning up after them :) I don't have a support system, sadly. I'm military with no family around to help. I definitely need to eat better, I'm sure that...
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    Post Divorce...follow-up

    Thank you for the kind words of encouragement. Sometimes the obvious is so overlooked. Prayer is something i really need to get back to more then what I do now. It's difficult sometimes with everything that's gone on. I'm realy looking forward to moving to my new base. I'm looking...
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    Single dad of three kiddies ages 11, 6, and 3

    I've been single-parenting now since Feb 2005. My ex-wife hasn't had one overnight. What methods do you other single parents use to get rejuvenated? My life schedule is this: 0500-0600 Getting Ready for work/Laundry wash 0600-0620 Preparing kids for daycare and school 0620-0645...
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    Post Divorce...follow-up

    For those who have followed my earlier posts, I thank you. Life these past couple years have greatly opened my heart. I seek prayer for a hardened heart though. Today, 8 months post-divorce and 1-year/3 months full custody of our 3 children, we had the final court hearing to determine if I...
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    Child custody

    Liselle, Remember awhile back in the posts when I said the anger would consume you...it's doing just that. Slowly but surely you are allowing Satan's greatest strength to consume you...bitterness, hatred, and jealousy. Learn to forgive and see what your heart does! Learn to love and not...
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    ring

    I gave it back long before the divorce was final. I have no regrets. It's material.
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    Divorced with a chapter closed...another open

    Thank you for the hope and inspiration that this will resolve some day. Right now in the thick of things, it just seems like eternity even though I know it's just a blink of an eye. Blessing, Dan
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    Divorced with a chapter closed...another open

    Thank you for the advice. I appreciate it. I've tried St Johns Wort before, but it never quite helped. I appreciate the advice and prayers.
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    Divorced with a chapter closed...another open

    I'm not getting help as of now but loooking to sign up for a divorce workshop through one of the local churches. It was recommended by the Guardian ad Litem and I'll do whatever it takes to benefit the health of my kids. She on the other hand was ordered to attend an anger management class...
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    Divorced with a chapter closed...another open

    Those who have been here long enough and tracked my previous posts know without a doubt that this divorce has been a very rocky experience, painful, and hurtful roller coaster of emotions. It was finalized a bit ago and I feel no different. Matter of fact, I feel more depressed now than when...
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    Pink eye, and hand-foot-mouth

    My little one is getting over the H/F/M disease. I diagnosed it befgore I got to the doctors and the doc said he hadn't seen a case in 6 months, doubted it was that. Hmpf! Welp, ten seconds later, he has h/f/m disease. Adam had a very mild case. His appetite stayed the same, no fevers, just...
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    What Causes Adultery

    Wow, I might come as a shock to many, but here goes anyway. In my marriage, I was lonely. Lonely and starving for another persons affection. When I turned to my wife for it, I'd get words like, "I hope you die." If that wasn't hurtful enough, "While don't you just shoot yourself!" Having...
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    Love Songs

    Okay, last one! It might be you - Stephen Bishop
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    Love Songs

    One More Day with You - Diamond Rio I'll Still be Loving You - Restless Heart Spend My Time - Clint Black (GREAT SONG!) Endless Love - Lionel Ritchie and Diana Ross I'm such a sap!
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    Love Songs

    You Had Me From Hello - Kenny Chesney If You Were Mine - Cyndi Thompson I'm Already There - Lonestar You are the Love of my Life - Jim Brickman and Michael W. Smith Let me Love You - Tim McGraw Here Without You - 3 Doors Down Annie's Song - John Denver (Although some here may be to young to...