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I wouldn't sweat it. hormones make kids think and dream funny things at your age. . . I'd write it off as that and not fret.

My pets, if possible I entomb them in a concrete block. I had two cats that were cousins and one died much before the other so I had him cremated and when his cousin died I mixed the ashes of the one cat in with the concrete I used to entomb the second. The concrete leaches the moisture out...

Matthew 18-15-17 . .. . Once the air is cleared, both ways, either make a commitment to work on building the friendship and discuss concrete ways to make that happen or agree to part without resentments.

You have discussed it, but have you asked the right questions? (the following I don't want answers to, but they may be useful questions for you) What does she enjoy about sex / what does she not enjoy about sex? Has she experienced sexual trauma (some studies say as many as 1 in four women...

It is good to prepare for the zombie apocalypse . . . not because there is likely to actually be a zombie apocalypse . .. but because real things like natural disasters, rioting and looting, and stuff can actually happen. The end of the world is kinda the same thing. Be right with God...

You are under no obligation to invite him & it might be best that you don't. A lot of young people post in this section & some of their issues are. . . . more in their head than out. Some people post with stuff that is really real. I am thinking you probably belong to that second camp & ask...

If your father contributed to the funding for your education, the right thing is to invite him. He might not come. . . could be too, later in life you may come to value aspects of your relationship you are mad about now. You say "Throughout my adolescence it felt like my dad made my life...

Anger is a secondary emotion. There is always something else at the root of it. Check this out: I feel angry when _______. Why do I feel angry? Because it is embarrassing, because it is unfair, because . . . . If you start analyzing what is at the root of your anger it gets easier to deal...

You have been beautiful for a long time and your husband is fortunate, bluegreysky. It isn't wrong to take note of the conditions of others, while the fortunate draw the eye . .. there are those in need that always seem harder to see. Jesus saw everybody & even though the "rich young ruler"...

Dump him, but not yet. That'd be my advice. Integrity is a virtue that touches on many things . .. a lack of it brings lies, cheating, crime, cover ups. . . I guess I should qualify that. Getting caught can be a learning experience & there is an old saying about the reliability of people who...

Sounds like he is cheating and looking for an excuse to justify. . . I think she should get to the bottom of it & then take appropriate action to make sure he can't afford his mistress.

I'd be more worried about Calvinism in the teachings of a PCUSA daycare, than any concerns about their stance on the controversial topic de jour. It is very fashionable to be pro-gay marriage these days & folks that disagree are the favorite punching bags of the media right now. It is easy to...

What country? How do you know her? How many children? What culture?

You can give someone space, without cutting them out (depending on the context of the friendship). I view cutting someone out as a formal "Look man, I don't want to have anything to do with you. . . bugger off" You can revisit contact with them in like a decade or two & if they are still...

In the Wild West (prior to the 1860's), they (African Americans) usually were called slaves and didn't have firearms. . . In the United States, most gun laws have their origin in protecting KKK members from their intended victims. Gun Control and Racism are still pretty tightly intertwined in...