Recent content by puregrl

You also have to ask the question of why they found someone else interesting enough to pursue. Is it something in her DNA that just makes her not be satisfied in a monogamous relationship? Did she grow tired of the current relationship? Was something she needed not being fulfilled? A person...

correct. I was answering the question of should he confront the guy.

By pursing me. If he feels some other guy is trying something...which would not happen...I would want him to step in. Because he is my husband and should be continually pursuing me, and I him, until the day we die. Pursuing is not the same as fighting. It is childish to run away in order to...

I do agree with darkhorse. Unfortunately what is going on with him cannot be solved on a forum. He could have a personality disorder that causes this behavior, or found this pattern of lying gets him what he desires...be it attention or sympathy or feeling close to someone. He does need more...

First of all, I want to congratulate you both on being married for 23 years. That is quite a period of time and I can imagine you have gone through a number of struggles. It seems like this one is more than you can handle at this point though. I do agree that you both need to see a counselor...

If this is your convictions, than you should follow it. If you go against your values and beliefs you will not be happy. I am not catholic, so I cannot speak to their beliefs. However, I can speak from personal experience that their are more reasons than cheating where divorce is valid...

finding out what to do with your life. Balancing classes with extra curricular activities. Balancing study time with free time. Weight gain. Changing your perspective on things. Making sure you take time to go home. Learning how to be on your own.

It took forever for me to figure out what I wanted to do. I started out in dental assisting, figured out that wasn't for me after graduating. Then i did radiography because I enjoyed taking x-rays...couldn't find a job. Decided to do nursing, loved it, went to school for a few years for it...

She sounds like she needs therapy, possibly medication. You need to have a life, and be with someone who wants you to love life. She needs to have more in life than a spouse, and so do you. Can she get some help?

Bahaha....the premarital counseling videos we did with our pastor had a guy that mentioned that. We refer to the Love Tank all the time for fun.

Thank you for sharing everything. I am glad you recognized the need to get out when it could have gotten dangerous. I know how difficult it can be to live with someone who does not seem to love you, and who treats you in such an abusive way (we divorced and I remarried a fabulous guy)...

Do you mind me asking your age ranges? Have you talked to him about what has been going on? Telling him how you feel?

That sounds very frustrating, to have her go back on a plan...concerning a huge part of a relationship. I think it is very selfish of her to ask you to stop seeing your own daughter. This is YOUR daughter, your family. Does she think you pay more attention to your daughter than her? Or...

Good book! It can do a lot for a relationship.

1) When did you get married? 2013...though it feels like we have been together much longer, in a good way 2) How long have you been together? since 2012 3) How did you meet? online, on Christian Mingle 4) Do you have a rich spiritual life with your significant other and do you both acknowledge...