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Thank you so much. It took all this time to get over the hurt and now he wants us back together. I made the mistake of putting my marriage before everything. I made my husband the center of all. I put him before family and friends...everything except God. Eventually he even had issues with...

AMEN - AMEN and AMEN. PRAISE OUR LOVING FATHER FOR HE IS GOOD ALL THE TIME!!

Okay, it may be sad but the truth is yes I still love him. As I've said before I am finally learning to love me just a little more. Sadly, I take my relationships seriously and love hard. With the Lord's help I'll be able to heal and let go entirely. I'm not completely lost though because I...

I'm embarassed to say...I still love him but thank the Lord I have finally learned to love me a little more. He has said he was sorry but it sounded so empty. You are right, he is having a hard time right now. Apparently the relationship he destroyed our marriage for is no longer working out...

My heart goes out to you. The only thing I can suggest is pray a lot. I know that may seem like I'm simplifying things but it truly helps and honestly works. You, your pregnancy and the children have to be what is most important right now. The resources and the people here are helpful too...

Hello all, I'm back. I thought I could handle my situation but here I am again :help:. It's been almost a year, how time flys when you miserable...oh well, my most recent upset is this, the 18 month seperation period (required by law governing the state we lived and married in) is finally over...

Why I do declare :swoon: what's up with the 'old' thing. I'm 52 and I enjoy coming here.....I'm always looking for more wisdom.

My first I was too young...19. It lasted four years and produced a wonderful son, so I never regretted it. I waited 26 years before remarrying only to go through pain, cheating and so much more negative stuff. God knows what I've endured and why. How people treat you because of it says more...

I used my engagement ring to pay off some of the debt he left me with and bought myself a pair of diamond studs for my ears;) The wedding band is on my right hand. Since it too is diamond studded I think after the divorce I'll get that tennis bracelet I've always wanted^_^ They're just...

In His Holy Name I pray for your peace and joy...may it flow upon you abundantly. Amen.

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Thank you so much. I actually feel tired and drawn all the time. Concentrating on others lets me forget about him but in doing so, I'm neglecting me. I never thought I'd be this messed up this long.

Flan, thanks for responding. For me its been almost 8 months we've been seperated. I know its over but yet it still hurts like it just happened! I usually recover pretty quickly from adversity but this seemed to totally weaken my spirit and I just can't figure out why I can't bounce back...

4Christ2....you too have given some good advice. I'm really not the crying type and of late it seems to be all I do. My eyes are constantly swollen/red. I just wasn't admitting to you guys what I was dealing with. I thought not talking about it would make it go away....I was painfully wrong...

Thanks so much. I think it's that feeling of permanent. I guess I needed to be reminded...there is more than this in store for me. Thank you and God bless.