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    Should you leave a partner over weight gain/old age

    Yeah that’s what i was getting at, I guess I didn’t explain it in the right context or maybe I needed to be more blunt, but yeah gold diggers was what I was talking about.
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    Should you leave a partner over weight gain/old age

    if the income stopped would you’re wife still stick around Probably not So why would you stick around if she gets old or fat
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    Should you leave a partner over weight gain/old age

    I think you guys are missing my point here. Yes I am aware that a husband should provide for his family and I 100% agree with that because that’s his job but if he were to hypothetically stop providing money the wife would probably leave him. If the husband were broke the wife would be out the...
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    Should you leave a partner over weight gain/old age

    I still don’t believe unconditional love exists, I still think a husband is in the right to leave his wife and find another younger prettier one ect because a wife would probably leave her husband if he didn’t bring money or the lifestyle to the table. It’s one of those double standards If a...
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    Should you leave a partner over weight gain/old age

    I do not believe relationships are unconditional love like many people claim, simple because if you’re partner did something horrible like rape/murder you probably wouldn’t love them anymore, which means you’re love isn’t unconditional. Anyway If you as a husband/boyfriend said hey honey I’ve...
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    I feel so angry and sick of myself.

    I’ve been in the same situation, time is the only thing that will heal you’re heart. For me the gut wrenching pain only lasted about 2 weeks or less, still was difficult after that but much easier. Block all contact and Just keep busy and you’ll slowly forget about it or at least not care...
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    I don’t really want to follow God’s plan

    My stubbornness is really setting me back with my walk with God like if my plan lines up with Gods plan then I’m ok with that, but if God’s plan doesn’t align with mine then I don’t want it. I know God’s plan will be better for me but I just don’t care, i don’t like being this stubborn and I...
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    What are some red flags in dating & relationships

    What do you think are some red flags in dating/relationships For both both Men/Women
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    How do I know who’s behind the thoughts

    Thank you all for the advice and encouragement, it has helped me out quite a lot. :)
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    How do I know who’s behind the thoughts

    How do I know my thoughts are from god or Satan?
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    Wife disrespected me

    I’m not Married but here’s my 2 cents Personally I’d be incredibly pi**ed off if that were me, I’d probably Lose it, you’re wife’s actions are disgusting, she probably wouldn’t risk her marriage for a guy she’s not attracted to don’t you think. Get serious with her, she’s probably going to...
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    I don’t know what to do!

    I want the things of this world but I also want to walk with Christ, I wish I didn’t want the things of this world more then god but I do and I don’t know what to do, my mind tells me to just stop pursuing god because I’ll never get to that place of loving god more then material thing. I’ve...
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    What do you think of....

    Not really seeking advice, more so opinions, but I knew a guy who was a pimp, a legal pimp he worked with prostitutes, marketing them/finding them clients/ organised dates ect he ran his own escorting agency his a pretty nice guy though, I’m running a business myself so we kinda related a bit...
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    Wanting to stop pursuing God

    It’s definitely not karma as I have never really hurt anyone maybe minor things as I’m not perfect but nothing major