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Recent content by myquestions

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    punishment

    should you make yourself unhappi for the damage you've done for others?
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    self punishment

    ^^^ i am not sure exactly what u mean??????
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    punishment

    can karma be you punishing yourself???
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    self punishment

    how about like not exactly eye for a eye, but give them something they ar jealous of, but subtely, not lettingn them knoe you are doing it to make up for the pain you cause them? cause no matter what u put them through the pain and they didn't ask for it???
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    punishment

    how about like not exactly eye for a eye, but give them something they ar jealous of, but subtely, not lettingn them knoe you are doing it to make up for the pain you cause them? cause no matter what u put them through the pain and they didn't ask for it???
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    self punishment

    it seems too simple to just just forgive urself though.....like the other person may still be in pain..?? i was thinking could u give up something of urs that that person u hurted is jealous of u, for example, to make it 'even'.sorri, if this sounds lame, but yeh.....__________________ if...
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    punishment

    if selfpunishment shouldn't occur, then how come there are jails for crimes? like some ppl that go to jail are truely sorri for their actions ,,,, it seems too simple to just just forgive urself though.....like the other person may still be in pain..?? i was thinking could u give up something...
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    self punishment

    am wondering, what do you do to yourself if you do something wrong, eg: like hurt someone, but u felt bad and learnt from it afterwards? some people just say forgiveness and apologises, but shouldn't we get punished because people get sent to jail. i knoe things like the example above, isn't as...
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    punishment

    i am wondering, what do you do to yourself if you do something wrong, eg: like hurt someone, but u felt bad and learnt from it afterwards? some people just say forgiveness and apologises, but shouldn't we get punished because people get sent to jail. i knoe things like the example above, isn't...
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    best friends wanting me to tell them everything

    those are good quotes =) what do you think i should say to friends that urge / pressure me to tell them about my own secrets and other others secrets?
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    best friends wanting me to tell them everything

    i do think they are good friends, but sometimes i do feel pressured and used, but then sometimes i go, maybe it's just me interpretiting it wrong. and i think maybe all friendships in life is meant to be like this, like with flaws, like i wonder if anyone has a friendship that doesn't have...
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    best friends wanting me to tell them everything

    i do think they are good friends, but sometimes i do feel pressured and used, but then sometimes i go, maybe it's just me interpretiting it wrong. and i think maybe all friendships in life is meant to be like this, like with flaws, like i wonder if anyone has a friendship that doesn't have...
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    best friends wanting me to tell them everything

    they don't realli tell me everything about them, but they always pick on me and saying that the reason they don't feel closer to me is because they 'just knoe' that i am holding back things. they can feel it. but then i them them that they don't tell me everything, then they are like, they have...
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    best friends wanting me to tell them everything

    my group of good friends get mad when i don't tell them about deep issues that i am dealing with, i tell them the basics but not wanting to talk heaps about it (i don't tell them since i have before and they just judge me :sick: and they don't understand at all and one even just laughs and...