Recent content by Mrs H

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    Your thoughts on my marriage...

    It sure is a great way. I’ve s done IF for a couple of years off and on. 16:8 worked for a while. Now I have started 20/4 most days but also alternate day added in there. I’m still trying to figure out which lifestyle change i can keep so don’t yo-yo again.
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    Your thoughts on my marriage...

    Yes, we moved for work. He has always disliked my weight and I have always struggled with losing it. Didn’t matter where we lived but especially hard here with so many thin women. I have asked him why he married me if I was too fat. His reply was that he thought I would lose it. I am 10lbs...
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    Your thoughts on my marriage...

    I wish my hubby felt that way. I’m 40+ so it getting harder to lose weight. I realize that it’s his issue but he’s made it clear that I NEED to be thinner. It probably doesn’t help that we live in Asia where’s everyone is stick skinny. I have looked into the marriage builders. Not going to...
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    Your thoughts on my marriage...

    Thanks for your thoughts everyone. It’s a difficult situation to be sure. As for professional help, we live overseas and don’t have access. I don’t think he’d do it even if we could. Divorce isn’t an option. To my knowledge he hasn’t had an affair, which would be the only biblical grounds for...
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    Your thoughts on my marriage...

    Thanks for the reply. We are not in the position to get professional help at this time.
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    Your thoughts on my marriage...

    Thanks for your reply. Yes wives are called to submit to and respect their husbands. Interesting enough, wives are never once instructed to love their husbands. It should be our nature to love. But we are each instructed to give what the other needs most i.e. love and respect. It’s just...
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    Your thoughts on my marriage...

    I have been in an unhappy marriage for many years. To try to sum things up, my husband is unhappy with my size (currently 5’10” 185lbs which is less than when we got married many years ago); I am unhappy with his lack of romance (he seemed romantic before we married writing poems and cards...