Recent content by Lyso

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    I have a predicament: trying to discern God's will in the world of dating.

    Not that I know of. All I know is she wasn't in the church at the time. The husband was also in the military - he was a marine. So maybe that made her feel he was alright. I don't know if she has received counseling. I do know that she didn't even talk to men for a few years afterwards, that God...
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    I have a predicament: trying to discern God's will in the world of dating.

    I'll just reiterate here for everyone that leading them both on was unintentional. As previously stated, being inadvertently flirty is a personality fault of mine I've recently discovered. I've adjusted my behavior once I actually realized what I was doing. Tall73, thanks for the sound advise.
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    I have a predicament: trying to discern God's will in the world of dating.

    That's also before she came to Christ and when she was 19. I also did many bad things before coming to Christ. I still do. Only now I repent and ask for forgiveness.
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    I have a predicament: trying to discern God's will in the world of dating.

    I've been regulating my behavior since. No flirting is going on. As far as ascribing a motive to Aly, I doubt that is the case. I realized she has been interested in me for a while. It just took a few months for me to notice and connect the dots. Besides, I'm not sure if she noticed Jenn was...
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    I have a predicament: trying to discern God's will in the world of dating.

    Pavel, I greatly appreciate this input. I haven't considered #2 much. I'll address each one. 1.) I focused more on the first in my message, because I wanted to give a detailed account of the "coincidence." Truth be told, I'm more excited about the second one. 2.) Both girls are from Christian...
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    I have a predicament: trying to discern God's will in the world of dating.

    I certainly don't expect him to tell me - at least not literally, but you never know. He did tell me to go back and finish law school. That might sound crazy, but He did. Regardless, I'm more concerned as to whether the "coincidence" was a form of Him speaking. I'll keep what you said in...
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    I have a predicament: trying to discern God's will in the world of dating.

    [Disclaimer: I don't have too much time to edit this. My apologies for any sloppy writing or grammatical errors that may cause confusion.] Preface I used to be "spiritually conservative." I would be skeptical when people would say things like "God put xyz on my heart," or "God told me to do...