Recent content by KingFisher97

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    My wife never wants to see my parents and I find it quite unfair

    My wife is interesting. If I wanted to do that I would probably be verbally berated.
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    My wife never wants to see my parents and I find it quite unfair

    I have. He’s good and keeps quiet but then ends up breaking. So that I understand. But the fact that she feels so strongly seems unfair to me. Her parents constantly bring up things I don’t want to talk about yet I love them to death. Just feel bad for my folks even if it can be my dads...
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    My wife never wants to see my parents and I find it quite unfair

    My wife really doesn’t like my family for no real reason. My dad was military and so are my wife and I and my dad likes to talk to her about it which she hates and will complain about my poor dad for hours when we get home. I feel so bad for my folks. Her family lives across the country and I...
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    I think a huge issue is a very very selfish root in myself is that I miss my single life more than I love her. Part of it is I look at her and hardly recognize the person she’s become and the person I’ve become but another part is that I myself miss my bachelor life which I know is not Christ...
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    Truthfully I believe this to be true. I think it was a form of lust but I also do love her as a friend very much. I will keep building on that friendship.
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    You can get an annulment 2 months after being married. The Bible says that if you spouse is an unbeliever and leaves, then you can let them go. But you cannot leave them
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    I appreciate your input but would highly disagree. That’s why I am here asking for help. When you marry someone, you are not staying true to yourself. You are sacrificing yourself for that person regardless of how you feel about them like Jesus did for us sinners. Staying true to ones self...
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    I do not feel emotions of love towards her and resent her but I still want to fight for our marriage.
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    This is a great question. I’d say, that she never matured in our relationship. Her parents have been married about 25 years and are still MADLY in love ans I think she uses that as a model. I sort of matured and fell in love with her as a wife, that meaning, as a beautiful woman that I loved...
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    Wow, this is life saving, thank you! I never thought about the dates idea. I mean, of course we go on dates, but the fact that we should mimic what made us in love when we were newly dating. There are things I do that she does not like but they are my hobbies. I understand to an extent that...
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    Thank you for this. I know that love isn’t just about feelings. But the other person can sense if you are not emotionally in love anymore ans while their actions of love might be touching, they will ultimately be lacking the knowledge that their spouse is emotionally in love with them which is...
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    How do I make my wife feel loved when I don’t love her anymore?

    I am sorry to hear about that. Knowing a loved one passed away without knowing the Lord must be beyond comprehensively painful. I will continued to do this.
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    Why are people calling John Piper woke and a false teacher?

    I think it is different than what you say. Truthfully, I disagree with Piper on his stance with the elections. God used Ahaz, Jeconiah and personally wicked kings to bring about His plan. However, Piper disagrees with Biden as well. If he affirmed Biden, I would have a whole different...
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    Why are people calling John Piper woke and a false teacher?

    I’ve seen a lot of reformed personalities on YouTube call him out for being Woke. I find it ridiculous.