Recent content by Kimberley74

So after praying about it, I've formulated a response to him. I'm not sure if I'll text him this or just talk to him about it, but this is essentially what I want to say. Advice welcome :) "I am really hurt and sad by your reaction to my church suggestion. If you had found a problem with the...

Completely agree with your thoughts around the church. He grew up very fundamentalist and I have had to nagivate around this for most of our marriage. Enabling it has really done a number on us as I am not very assertive. There is so much control and manipulation around everything I do. I did...

My husband and I have been in counseling for over a year now without making much progress. A few months ago, our therapist suggested that we move to individual counseling. She has recognized some emotional abuse coming from him and I stayed with her while he went to another counselor. She is...