Recent content by jjust19

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    Young girl couldn't take it anymore, so...

    So are you condoning violence? Are you basically saying that as Christians, we should not just spiritually battle, but physically hurt other people?
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    I forsook (abandoned) brethren from church.

    It's your choice if you want to go back or not. If you find them to be impudent, then go and find another church or meet up with other Christians.
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    Young girl couldn't take it anymore, so...

    Christians are peaceful, never violent. Sure we can intervene, as long as it's in a peaceful manner (i.e. telling someone to stop, guarding the other person etc.).
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    Relationship advice needed

    Communication is the key to every relationship.
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    Should a Son ask his Dad if he's been viewing inappropriate contentography?

    He'd probably avoid talking about it even if the subject was brought up, just give you a vague answer, or just a flat "No." If he's a Christian, I advise you to talk to him about the consequence of such sin. Moreover, I know from personal experience that inappropriate contentography can become an extremely hard...
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    what now? just found out my daughther is having premarital sex

    I advise you to only remind her of what she's doing (kindly and calmly). In the end, it's her decision to follow her own way or God's way. I too am in the same position as your daughter, and I too need to realise my error and sin. The best approach is to be empathetic and understanding; anger...
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    Should I just have sex with my boyfriend?

    As a person with free will it's ultimately your choice. Yes, the Bible says it's a sin (I'm guessing it is due to STD's, bonding, worth of a person, sanctity of sex etc.). It's incredibly difficult to control sexual urges, and in this day and where we can access depraved things at the click of a...
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    How can I get closer to God?

    My relationship with Christ has been somewhat nonexistent of late. A lot of things have happened regarding church, scripture and other Christians in which I'll spare you the details of. To cut things short, I really don't know who God is anymore. I blame it mainly on the callous actions of other...
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    Can I still be a Christian?

    The question itself is vague, but what I'm asking is whether or not I can still remain a Christian if I can't attend church or read the Bible anymore. The reason in which I can't go to church is just due to the fact that there's only one church in my local area, and the people there have caused...
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    All the wrong things

    I'm really not even going to bother reading your comments if you guys just focus on the homosexuality.
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    Afraid of God

    So you're basically saying that if I've ever been angry towards God and become an Atheist, there's no turning back? Well... I'm boned.
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    Afraid of God

    It may seem a little odd for a Christian to be scared of his/her creator, but I guess oddities do occur from time to time. To be honest, nothing scares me more than Jesus, God and the Holy Spirit. I fear them more than anything in this world for countless reasons. This includes judgement, the...
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    Is this what a Christian is meant to be like?

    After reading the comments that have been posted on this forum, it's clear to me that there are two classes of Christians: the class that just assumes that people who quit are just intolerant, lazy people that just quit on any random whim or for a Christianity that is apparently easier. And...
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    All the wrong things

    My Christian walk has come under heavy fire from the enemy of late. From uncontrollable bursts of anger to lust that is hard to manage, I've literally fallen off the deep end of my faith and plunged into a world of doubt, fear, uncertainty and apathy. My biggest problem currently is the fact...
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    Is this what a Christian is meant to be like?

    That'd be right. I must be so overcome with rage that I totally disregard rational thought. Wow. If it contradicts what you believe, is has to be filled with anger and malice, doesn't it. Whatever. I'm not even going to argue with the likes of you.