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    Help and advice on marriage....

    Hey, I'm not giving up. I'm a fighter. It can be good and it could be bad lol but I never quit. When I have my heart set on something, I go for it! and I feel like God is telling me to go on!
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    I think it's going to be okay. I stll have all my hope, no matter what he thinks or says. I think, I hope, the marriage counseling will help us. I still have hope! (:
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    Thank you for caring so much! We had another long chat last night. It was sad because he said he he is done with everything, not only me but done stressing over work, family, etc... He says the reason why he says IDK to everything we talk about or has no input because he has no feelings. He...
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    Lets see them birds! (or any pet)

    She looks so cute and soft! What is her name?
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    Lets see them birds! (or any pet)

    I have 6 birds! 5 cockatiels and an African Grey. Momma 'tiel- Coco Daddy 'tiel- Ollie Baby 'tiels- Ziggy, Zach, Youngster I wish I had a picture of the 'tiels together and SITTING STILL! But I have one of the Big Baby Bird - D.J. (Davy Jones because he has little nubs) If anyone has any birds...
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    And I am very happy that you and your wife are doing amazing! I love getting advice from personal experiences. Bless you two!
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    I LOVE THIS! Thank you so much! I know exactly what he enjoys and I'm definitely going to use those. I love to do things for him. I do a lot of things for him. Going the extra mile isn't going to hurt (: I am going to be the love that loves regardless... Thank you!
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    Yes! We found a great counselor. I am very excited!
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    Definitely! I believe he hears me and understands. But he's just so stubborn that maybe he doesn't want to hear me and wants to walk away.
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    Communication IS key! I'm great at communicating, with him at least. I just hope he wants to hear it.
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    We never had counseling. His grandfather, our Pastor, kept telling us it would be good for us, but we kept denying it. I really wish I listened to him haha! But it's never to late to work on things!
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    Thank you DarthNeo! I am going to be the best wife I can be. I know God will lead us both together again. I just need my man to sit down and read the bible and pray with me! He is just so stubborn, he would rather hang out with his roommate then to just sit peacefully and enjoy this with me...
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    Thank you so much! Truthfully, we've been through this same exact situation when we first started dating, we ended up taking a break, then after a month a realized he was being stubborn and loved me. That's why I have so much hope. And I know God will never put a situation in my path that I...
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    He tries to help me when things are going though but I feel like he wants things to get better asap. Like if things don't get better in a day, he just pushes them to the side and avoids them. And with this situation, he is saying that he doesn't have hope for me anymore. He keeps saying he wants...
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    Help and advice on marriage....

    Thank you! and we are both 21. We got married last August so this August will be our first year married... No children