Recent content by Iffy

hi, i've decided to post here because i need some help and support and hope that God can use his family here ... i've gone for a few counselling sessions and heard the advice of family and friends but i'm still struggling. i know it takes time but i feel quite depressed. i'm at work typing this...

Hi, I wonder if anyone struggles with codependency. I do and I am engaged to be married end of the year. I'm scared to because I still haven't resolved this ... should I wait to get married? I hope someone can help me with their personal experience ... I love my fiance and I want us to have...

It would be good if respondents can e-mail me at c_liew@optusnet.com.au in addition to posting on this thread as I am not sure I will be logging on to cf. much. thanks so much!

Hi, I have been wanting to know for awhile if there is a translation of Lee Strobels's Case for Faith? I have a Chinese-speaking cousin who has lots of questions, loves reading to satisfy his curiosity, and I just know this book would be of great benefit to him. Unfortunately, his command of the...

Of course everyone is different. But I agree with the poster who said, if marriage is far from the horizon, go slowly. I think your question was dealing with the practical side of it and that poster put it well. James Dobson has this booklet called 'Love for a Lifetime' or something like that...

Hi all, I just wanted to share a poem I wrote 3 months ago with you guys. At that time, my thoughts were VERY preoccupied with a certain someone. Somehow I felt that he was the one God had chosen for me. But now I don't think so. I have begun the process of letting him go and filling...

Hi Haydz of NZ, I think it is a good thing to want to grow up, don't listen to those ppl! :) What they're probably saying is you don't want to be too 'mature' that you forget to have fun. But maturity is what God has called us too. There're many kinds of maturity. Spiritual, emotional...

hi Wide Eyed Wonder, I can understand what you're saying. How often do you see your dad who lives far away? I've had my Dad with me my whole life but I actually never had a real 'father figure' because he and I never spoke much during my growing up years. He was too busy working and very...

Christiana (fr Pilgrim's Progress) :)

tahnk you all for your replies! i agree that it isn't a denomination q because i know of catholics who have rships with God. i also think - from my personal exposure to people - that generally catholics tend to be more permissive in their lifestyle - smoking, swearing, pre marital sex.. this...

This is me from the 'Girls Asks Boy Out' thread.. I would say...as the subject suggests..that him being Catholic is part of my confusion.. I have asked him a few times before about his walk with God but he doesn't really understand that cuz I think a lot of Catholics don't really view...

there is another 'element' to my story. i'll post another thread

thanks for all your replies. i very much appreciate the guys' point of view as i wonder what the guy i like is thinking. actually he sort of asked and i sort of said no. so i wondered if it was my turn to ask...since i sort of rejected him last time. because i am shy, i have been sending...

pin, yes i agree you either follow or you fall for them and you can't blame anyone else cuz God's given you (me) a choice.. i think i'm in a bind sinmply because i like this guy a lot and there is nothing i can do about it. there is 'nothing' i can do about it... because i do know...