Recent content by HisLittleHazelnut

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    Lupus

    My husband is one of those rare men who have Lupus, right now he is in remission. He was in the middle of Junior year in college when he was diagnosed although it was clear he'd had it quite a while. He had to take five years off and now we're trying to finish our degrees.
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    How long have you been with your SO?

    Good luck... and remember, if you are tempted, Paul says, "it is better to marry than to burn with passion."
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    Wondering how to tell my bf of 4 years about my little problem

    First of all, it's not the exact same situation, but again, Emily, if he loves you, he will look over this. I pull my hair out. I have since I was 11. It's something beyond my control, an actual disorder. Sometimes it's so bad that I am completely bald. There are never days when I can go...
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    Spouse doing

    He's snoozing on the couch. I called over asking him if he needed to go to bed and there was NO response.
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    Want to change hair color.

    I ended up going for jet black:
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    Snip-Snip

    *facepalm*
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    Not the only Christians?

    The cOC I grew up in believed that a) only cOC members were going to heaven, and b) that only those in the "mutual edification" subgroup of cOC were going to heaven (Mutual Edification being the belief that having a paid minister was wrong. This was in California.)
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    Spouse doing

    Mine's playing a game on his laptop.
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    My girlfriend... made a mistake(long)

    I respectfully disagree. I've gotta tell you, I was the cheater in my relationship. We were long distance, and during a time that I was feeling suicidal, I went back to my ex boyfriend because he was the only person I had around me that could help me feel better. I didn't have any friends. I...
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    Want to change hair color.

    You misread. I wear wigs, and I have to get whatever color works, I can't really dye it. :P So basically try to get a red?
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    Want to change hair color.

    I've done everything from red to black but have never been a shade of blond. I have had to wear wigs since I was 13, so the process of bleaching to obtain the color is not going to be a problem, I just want to get an idea if a color I'd like would work. Currently I'd say I'm at a dark auburn...
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    Quite possibly pregnant (I'm married) but we can't support a child!

    Actually we tried getting food stamps, apparently our area of Arkansas is so bad off that if you have income of ANY form you're denied food stamps currently. By unable to work, that's exactly what I mean. My husband is unable to work. He can't type fast enough for data entry and his disability...
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    Quite possibly pregnant (I'm married) but we can't support a child!

    I'm feeling like a fat cow. I just lost a ton of weight and then here almost every single inch has popped back onto my belly. I'm bloated, I'm gassy (although I haven't been eating anything that would cause it), nauseous every freaking morning until DH brings me a small bowl of rice...
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    Should spouses try to maintain their appearance for each other?

    I think that we should try to keep ourselves up, but even that needs to be within reason. People age, women get pregnant and many of them cannot get back to their pre-pregnancy weight, stress at work can cause cortisol release leading to belly fat, etc. As long as you do your best to try to stay...
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    Post Pictures of you and your partner!

    We're married now, though. :)