Recent content by *heidi*

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    Is your husband obsessed with video games?

    (Couldn't hear the clip, no head phones.) But, for my husband it's computer games. And it sucks. Ugh. I don't mind the games themselves (I used to play them all day every day, when there weren't other responsibilities), but it's when everything else that needs to be done gets neglected at...
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    Breast feeding, maybe size DOES matter?

    Once everyone gets past the early day difficulties, I think it would be very difficult to breastfeed with larger breasts. It certainly looks difficult. I admire those women who do it in public, because they generally need to expose more. I am small chested and can keep myself totally covered...
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    we want to be married

    So, just get married! it's good to consider the wisdom of others, but not everything others say is wisdom, most is just plain rubbish. Time to look at the facts! Do the sums for yourself, write down what your expenses and income would be if you were married now. If it balances, then YOU ARE...
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    teen mothers

    I don't know if they have any Christian bookshops in the US, but they do here in Aus. You could pop into one of those, or check out their website if they have one to order from, and check out the parenting sections. There has got to be some resources that are relevant to you there. I really...
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    Shortest time to plan a wedding?

    I got engaged on November 7, 2004 and married on February 5, 2005 (just over 4 months now), so we organised our wedding in 3 months! We had just over 100 guests at the reception and about 130 at the ceremony (which most people I have talked to consider to be quite sizable), all invited to the...
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    Getting married tomorrow!

    Hey all! I'm getting married tomorrow! I'm excited! Time for sleep now! Pray for us! Ciao
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    Getting married in less than 1 month!

    Thanks for the advice guys.
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    Getting married in less than 1 month!

    Hello everyone I haven't been around much lately cos I have been busy planning a wedding. Here's a bit of an update on me and how things have been going. I'm posting this in the hope that it may be of some help to those considering marriage and is probably more helpful to those getting married...
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    What makes marriage so hard?

    I think the thing that makes marriage hard is not sticking close to God individually and together. Without Him to rely on and pull you through the hard times, marriage is nearly impossible. Also, people's attitude to marriage plays a big part. It just doens't work for many people because they...
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    Praying and Reading the Word Together...

    TJMan2050 I know it can be hard, but as the man in the relationship it is your job to take the lead in this. You do your part and God will do His. It will become easy to do in time and you will see the benefits forever!
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    More at the ceremony, or at reception?

    From what I've been told, "you are only supposed to" send invitations to those who you want to come to both the ceremony and reception.... and you don't send anything to those you want to come to just the ceremony. This is what i have done, but I think it is a bit silly, because how are the...
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    Arrrrrrrrrggggggg... hurt my mum!

    Let's not read too much into simple things like who walks where and when for less than 1 minute of your life. I think, it's not big deal if your mum walks you down the isle, she want's to, so why not? I doubt something like this is going to have any effect at all on your marriage with your...
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    Where did you find him/her

    Hey, where's the school option? I met my guy in high school!
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    Word of advice for brides to be about BC...

    Thanks for the advice Bowling Pin, but in Australia everything just seems to work better in general. :P We don't need any pelvic exams.
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    Word of advice for brides to be about BC...

    Well, I have no problems using tampons... so hopefully it will all work. I will go to the doc to talk about birth control, but not for any physical exam. I will find out if I don't work when I don't work. Psychological damage though? That sounds a bit far fetched. If it hurts too much, then I...