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haha, I will be in a city 75 miles from where i live to do it.

Will do. And it will be in person.

Thanks. I might go in with low or no expectations of actually getting a date or having a chance of getting a date, and just anticipate learning how to talk to women and have a meaningful/interesting conversation.

thanks for sharing opinions and experience

What is ya'll's opinions on speed dating? for those who have done it, what has been your experience?

My head is going to explode from all of the dating stories of straight into dating (no friends first) and being friends first then asking out re, and which one is the best approach. Debra Filleta reccomends starting as friends first. I've definitely became close or casual friends with a woman...

Totally disagree about Debra Fileta and Mark Ballenger. They quote Scripture and their advice is Biblical. There are some other relationship gurus who are secular who I do not pay attention to as much. I can be content "in" singleness but I will not be content "with"... if everyone was content...

The most recent person i asked out, I was interested and was not just asking for the sake of asking out since I had not asked out anyone for three years. It's kinda tough with my work and personal schedule to meet a lot of people and my social circles are not big so perhaps a counselor or dating...

If by online single sites, you mean dating sites then yes I have. And it's been fruitless as all but one I've used I've attracted dishonest people, scam artists and gold diggers who likely viewed me as a human checking account or ATM. I would rather be ignored or ghosted than scammed. I MIGHT...

What is a gift from God? Yes, we should take everything to God but that doesn't mean we can't seek help from other people including people such as counselors or therapists. That maybe their God-given calling or purpose

I am a 46-year old male (never married, never had a relationship) and both tired of being single all the time and lacking dating/relationship experience (I've only been on two dates my whole life). After my latest strikeout in which I approached someone and gained confidence that I can actually...

It’s too personal and discouraging for me to go into details so I’ll just say it’s an unspoken request.

Can a mod please close/lock this thread? It’s run its course.

As this is a Christian Forum, can I please have a little grace and compassion instead of a condescending attitude. You should feel blessed that you obviously understand it and I am not so blessed in understanding so please a little more compassion.

I don't understand either married women or men not wearing a wedding ring. as that would seem to invite trouble as in that case potential suitors would approach the ringless married person, not knowing the person was married. so if I may ask, why don't ya'll wear wedding rings: just a personal...