Recent content by Cece_lee16

Hi everyone! I just wanted to let you all know that a month after this post I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. Now being a few months out of the relationship, I know in the deepest part of my soul that it was the right choice. After lots of prayer and hours and hours of conversation with...

Hello Cece_lee16, welcome to Christian Forums. I admire your convictions. If you're convinced in the Holy Spirit that your boyfriend doesn't share your values (not drinking, etc.) then it's best to move on. You can still love him as your brother in Christ. Hope that helps. God bless :)...

Hi everyone! I just wanted to let you all know that a month after this post I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. Now being a few months out of the relationship, I know in the deepest part of my soul that it was the right choice. After lots of prayer and hours and hours of conversation with...

Hi everyone! I just wanted to let you all know that a month after this post I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. Now being a few months out of the relationship, I know in the deepest part of my soul that it was the right choice. After lots of prayer and hours and hours of conversation with...

Hi everyone! I just wanted to let you all know that a month after this post I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. Now being a few months out of the relationship, I know in the deepest part of my soul that it was the right choice. After lots of prayer and hours and hours of conversation with...

Hi everyone! I just wanted to let you all know that a month after this post I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend. Now being a few months out of the relationship, I know in the deepest part of my soul that it was the right choice. After lots of prayer and hours and hours of conversation with...

Thank you for your response. He is very kind and not manipulative at all. Looking back I never should have made the compromise I just genuinely had no idea I would end up feeling upset about it. He never pressured me in to making that compromise it was something I wanted to do on my own...

Hi thanks for your response! Yes, this is something we have discussed and he agrees to not having alcohol in the house. Our upbringings were very different. I was exposed to alcohol abuse and he has always been around people that drank in a very responsible way. I think that's where the...

Oh no need to apologize! I appreciate your honesty. Some of those questions you proposed are ones I have been wrestling with for the last few months. Especially the point you made about if I love him I could possibly ignore it. Everyone has given me so much to think about and I really...

That is a great point.

Thank you for your empathy, it is very hard. I think just being open about it with all of you has helped process how I'm actually feeling about it. I've just been pushing it down and avoiding thinking through things. Even when I pray about it I think I am kind of vague. He truly does love the...

I so agree with what you said. I have a lot to consider. Thank you so much ❤️