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    Getting Over Toxic Friendships

    I can’t thank you for more for sharing your encounter! ❤️❤️ Thankfully for that intercessor u met. I believe as u look back now, she was godsend to reach out to you, likewise, what u shared w me did shed some light into my situation. I need to see this from this manner, and at the same time...
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    Getting Over Toxic Friendships

    You words are such a comfort to me ❤️ Perhaps God really did so that I can be drawn closer to Him and His people. Truly glad to know such things dun just happen to me and they are part and parcels of life. Perhaps my life has been easy in my earlier days... so to face this is quite a traumatic...
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    Getting Over Toxic Friendships

    Yes indeed. Actually this is a secular group support. I should have looked for spiritual support grp where like-minded women gather. But it was a good experience for me to encounter this, just that it was too overwhelming emotionally for me to handle the pain of losing friends at mid 30s. It’s...
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    Getting Over Toxic Friendships

    Thanks Labelle for sharing your insight on my situation. It does enlighten me . I have personally tried to move on in knowing new friends, it’s the past hurts that are still haunting me. I’m trying to draw strength from God to deal with it and wish I can be healed emotionally deep there. I will...
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    Getting Over Toxic Friendships

    Thanks Thanks IceJad for your advice abc comforting words.
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    Getting Over Toxic Friendships

    Hi John, Thanks for your reply. She told my other friend that no point for her to speak. I guess she wanted to protect her 'angelic' impression with the others and continue to enjoy the company. I have never confronted her about it but I have been on guard when dealing with her. But I am tired...
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    Getting Over Toxic Friendships

    I get to know a group of friends when I was pregnant with my child. We hung out a lot and supported one another in our motherhood. However, due to some confrontation and being too direct, I lost a group of them who thought i wa nasty in my comments and not understanding. I did not recall what...