Recent content by BenCollyer91

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    relationship between Healing and repentance (including physical)

    Hello, I have been on the recieving end of a physical healing previously, but I was wondering how healing and repentance are linked? I cant imagine that God would elect to heal someone who is unrepentant and also I believe that when living in sin, faith cannot grow and its through our faith...
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    Difficult situation with my baby daughter

    the condition i have is untreatable and incurable unfortunately, God is my only hope
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    Difficult situation with my baby daughter

    did you read my post? Im unable to feel emotions, brain injury
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    Difficult situation with my baby daughter

    My fiance who was carrying my child broke up with me in april my daughter is two months old now, and I also have a brain condition from anti depressants for 7 years which has left me unable to feel emotions, bond or attach to anyone I have faith that God will heal me one day, I feel he wants...
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    The worst mistake of my life

    the reason I struggle to take my focus from her is due to attachment trauma, my childhood was abusive and neglectful, I never had a safe and secure connection with either of my parents or anyone for that matter, so my ex is like a projection, an avatar representing the missing pieces of my...
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    The worst mistake of my life

    ofcourse she doesn't have to give me another chance, but then, Jesus didn't have to go to the cross there is a higher love
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    The worst mistake of my life

    this is a well rounded comment, its encouraging and assumes my repentance, and offers advice on how to move forward from what is a very painful situation most other comments have just been used as opportunities to bash me or point out my wrongs, essentially stating the obvious, im familiar with...
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    The worst mistake of my life

    theres nothing to be proud of having a blended family, God didn't intend for people to have children and then seperate yes, she would be sinning if she married an unbeliever, she can't use my mistreatment of her as an excuse to disregard scripture, the slate is clean now, where do we go from here
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    The worst mistake of my life

    I am prepared to do these things, I hope that her mother, in turn, will deepen her relationship with God and seek to live as a christian should, I do want any unbelieving man step fathering my daughter
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    The worst mistake of my life

    how did that relate to my dating this woman though?
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    The worst mistake of my life

    Im not sure what God intended when he reminded me of abraham and isaac, any idea?
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    The worst mistake of my life

    Yes I agree, its interesting that he used me to bring her to church despite clearly warning me to end the relationship
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    The worst mistake of my life

    In may last year I met a nice girl, we had an instant connection and I wanted to share the gospel with her, at the time I met her I'd been in rebellion against God for a few years, God spoke to me 3 times in the space of 2 weeks after meeting her the first thing he said was "I am the source of...
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    My christian friend has got engaged to a non christian

    oh, I have no interest in her romantically