Recent content by Bac81

No one said they would be.

I agree completely, which is why I've been sick about it. I hate that thought badly and have been praying for God to remove that idea since it happened. It's horrifying.

Because I don't see us getting a divorce. I feel that we're past that despite the issues I'm still feeling. It made no sense to me that I would feel any need to "be okay" that would involve someone else. That then got me worrying that God was warning me about something to come... either my wife...

That said, I did want to relay what I think was a ground breaking moment in all this that happened tonight. I was sick all night with all this confusion as I worked. I didn't speak with "Abbie" before she left as she headed out quickly (she was being honored as a teacher of the year nominee at a...

Nothing actually. Trust me, I'm not much to look at :) Remember the first line in my original post, I'm not looking for an affair. I don't want one. She's shown no sign of interest and I've done nothing to relay what I'm going through to her or anyone else besides God and the above post where I...

Note: I'M NOT LOOKING FOR AN AFFAIR or attempting to justify one!!! Just saying that up front. But I'm in a strange situation right now and I'd love to hear some advice from fellow believers. Some background first: I've been married for 17 years, but 10 years in, my wife had a brief affair...