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    What's on your mind?

    hi guys...feels good to be back...thinking: Wow this site has undergone sooo many improvements and wondering if anyone here remembers me from waaaay back in the day lol. hows everyone doing?
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    Dress up for Fall Contest and Fellowship-10-8-13

    Hey there evryone :wave: Congratulations on ur graduation~Gig~ :clap:
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    How important is your choice of friendships?

    Yea it can be so tough dilemma...friendships. There are some periods in my life where I would find myself insimilar situation as you. Since I am a friendly person, I try my best to be a good friend to pEeople no matter what their background is. But as the Bible said, can two walk together lest...
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    Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world?

    Um no...this is so not the point of my thread so please don't say things like this anymore cuz I don't want you turning people away. Only thing I can say in response to this statement is the Biblical example of Peter - he KNEW Christ...he walked, talked, ate and slept with Jesus for three...
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    Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world?

    Thank you...well I hope you meet more Christians that are more humble, display more of God's love and are not quick to push God out of his Judgement Throne :thumbsup: Ok it was you who said that...referenced the scriptures I put in my OP with Isaiah 29. I had gone back to compare the two and...
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    Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world?

    The tricks you refer to is not Christianity itself but people who interpret it wrong, or those who put on their self-righteous act and want to put everybody else in their place I don't know where you have heard this, but this is absolutely not true. One can sincerely leave GOd because of...
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    Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world?

    lol fair enough, Jesus belongs to anyone who believes in him and wnats to be His friend :thumbsup: I totally agree with you that the Heart of "our" Jesus is Love (unconditional), Compassion and Service :clap: Christianity should be about modeling Jesus' hearts to those around us, not about...
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    Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world?

    Hmm I know that is possible that people who were once really passionate about Christ and serving God somewhere along the line could not keep on believing anymore for various reasons. I am sure that somewhere along down the road I may go through something or experience something that will make me...
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    Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world?

    1 Corinthians 1: 18 -31 18 For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. 19 For it is written: “I will destroy the wisdom of the wise; the intelligent of the intelligent I will frustrate” 20 Where is the...
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    People here complain

    hahaha you totally crack me up! ^_^ yea...it's like my ex-school buddies are all getting married one by one by one...but I moved again so they all far away and I just watch from Facebook, so yet to observe them acting cliquish Funny enough, just found this little niche of Singles on CF like 2...
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    "So, you're my girlfriend now right?"

    Fair enough,, thanks for taking time to explain to me ... and that's good you're taking your time in reaching that decision. :thumbsup: I know some people who are not touchy-feely kind of people. Is that how you always were as a child? Or did something happen to make u adverse to touch? I...
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    dealing with lonelyness.

    Mmhm...and maybe having an older/wiser Christian sister be there to be ur accountability partner and give you godly counsel. One very important advice I've received from various sources is that we should not go into a relationship/marriage seeking for the man/woman to fill our loneliness/our...
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    "So, you're my girlfriend now right?"

    Honey, most men out there are naturally wired to want sex as many times as they can get it in a day. It is only with maturity that they know how to check their impulses or by the grace of God. I dont have experience with asexual men, so yes a few may not have that...but its rare. Either that or...
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    "So, you're my girlfriend now right?"

    I am the sort of person that needs to be friends with someone first before the whole possibility of relationship comes up. however, I find how you referred to this guy as "the guy i am with" a bit confusing. Why would u refer to him as the guy u are with and sound like ur contradicting...
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    in a bit of a pickle

    Well none of us are Christian-converting machines. THat is purely the job of the Holy Spirit...he is the one that can convict people about who God is and Christ's death and gift of salvation and the need to accept that and become a new glorious creation. I think that you should at least pray...