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Father, sons drowned teen daughter over her ‘Western lifestyle’

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"A Muslim father and his two sons tied up his teen daughter and drowned her in a swamp because they believed her “Western behavior” was shaming their family, according to Dutch prosecutors.

The body of Ryan Al Najjar, 18, was found gagged, bound with tape and submerged in a marsh May 28, 2024, six days after she vanished from the family’s home"

 
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I see you refuse to allow the topic of the discussion to be discussed. You can easily start your own thread to talk about the things you prefer to talk about
 
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I see you refuse to allow the topic of the discussion to be discussed. You can easily start your own thread to talk about the things you prefer to talk about
Oh, no, I am addressing the topic, which is your continued spreading of anti-Muslim bigotry. What I'm doing is undermining your message by pointing out that people from other groups do bad things, too.
 
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Oh, no, I am addressing the topic, which is your continued spreading of anti-Muslim bigotry. What I'm doing is undermining your message by pointing out that people from other groups do bad things, too.

No. The topic is not my anti-Muslim bigotry. Please delete your posts, so the actual topic can be discussed.
 
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Honor killings are a cultural phenomenon and not related to religion.

Honour killing is not restricted to the Muslim communities. It is paramount to realize the cross-cultural dimension of honour killing. It is not restricted by class, caste, region or religion.

In Upper Egypt, it was found that Coptic families (Egyptian Christians) were statistically as likely as Muslim families to commit such crimes. Similarly, it is reported that honour killing takes place in the Palestinian Christian community in Palestine.

"It doesn‘t have any direct connection with religion at all, It is not unique to any particular religion. We see it among Hindus. We see it among Jews and Christians in the (Middle East) region. It is also not limited to the Middle East or the Arab world."



Sarit Ahmad, 18, who was shot dead in June 2023 near her hometown of Kisra-Summi in northern Israel. Ahmad, who was Druze and a lesbian, had filed a police complaint against her brothers, who were briefly imprisoned. Her youngest brother, Sa’id Ahmad, 29, now stands accused of hiring two residents of the nearby town of Shfaram to kill her.

The phenomenon of killing women for the sake of “family honor” in the Israeli Arab sector has not abated, said Falah.


So-called honor killing in Catholic family shocks Indian state

The murder of a socially poor Dalit Catholic man who had married a woman belonging to an upper-caste Syrian Christian family has fueled protests across India's southern state of Kerala.

Kevin Joseph, 26, a member of Vijayapuram Diocese, was murdered in a so-called honor killing May 28, five days after he married 20-year-old Neenu Chacko of an affluent Christian family in Kollam district against the wishes of some members of her family, ucanews.com reported.

The murder has opened debate in Kerala about discrimination against Christians of lower-caste origin by upper-caste Christians, who claim to be descendants of the priestly caste of Hindu Brahmins converted by St. Thomas the Apostle in A.D. 52.


Israeli Christian killed his daughter because of her love for a Muslim, police say

On the day after her high school graduation party, Henriette Karra, 17, confided in a relative her plans to become a Muslim for her boyfriend.

Henriette, an Arab Israeli, knew that her Christian family in Ramle, a city in central Israel, would be furious. Her parents had made it clear during Henriette’s year of dating her Muslim boyfriend, also an Arab Israeli, that they considered the relationship a shame to the family.

On June 13, she told her relative of her plans to be with him. The relative then called her father, telling him Henriette’s intentions.

That day, police found Henriette dead in her parents’ kitchen, with multiple stab wounds to her neck.

On Sunday, about a month after Henriette’s death, Israeli police charged her father, Sami Karra, with murder, Israeli media outlets reported. Authorities allege Karra killed his daughter over his “vehement opposition” to her relationship with the young Muslim man and her intentions to convert to Islam for him, the Jerusalem Post reported, citing a criminal indictment.


Killed for the family's honour

Her name was Faten. She was 22-years-old, a Palestinian Christian from the West Bank city of Ramallah.

After her lifeless body was found, her father and an aunt were taken into custody.

Faten had fallen in love with a young man called Samer, a Muslim, from Jericho. Her family disapproved of her choice.



Pakistani murders his sister in name of ‘honor’: police

A Pakistani girl has been killed by her brother for insisting on marrying a man of her choice, police said on Tuesday, marking the nation’s latest gruesome “honor killing”

Anum Ishaq masih, in her late teens and from a Christian family, was murdered while she slept in the city of Sialkot, southwest of Lahore, in the early hours of Sunday.

“Saqib Ishaq masih, 23, killed his sister by smashing her head with a wooden log while she was sleeping,” said Rana Zulfiqar, the officer in charge of the police station in Sialkot. “The girl, named Anum Ishaq masih, was in her late teens and wanted to marry a Christian neighbor, but the family was against the marriage.”
 
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Not so long the very christian nation of Ireland basically enslaved women who got pregnant out of wedlock and let their children die from neglect.

Less enlightened societies tend to treat their vulnerable members badly. Nothing new.
 
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Christian parents kick 12 year olds out of their house for being gay.

It's not killing but it's not good.

Why do you guys get to decide the topic of my thread?
 
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Not so long the very christian nation of Ireland basically enslaved women who got pregnant out of wedlock and let their children die from neglect.

Less enlightened societies tend to treat their vulnerable members badly. Nothing new.

If you guys all stick together, united in off-topic responses, maybe you'll succeed in your objective.
 
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Why do you guys get to decide the topic of my thread?
What's to discuss?

When religious zealots hurt or kill their children because of how their religion fights against the culture, that's a tragedy.
 
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No. The topic is not my anti-Muslim bigotry. Please delete your posts, so the actual topic can be discussed.

Why do you guys get to decide the topic of my thread?

Then what is the topic? Do you want to talk about domestic violence in foreign countries? I didn't realize you were so concerned about that.
 
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Then what is the topic? Do you want to talk about domestic violence in foreign countries? I didn't realize you were so concerned about that.
I guess the topic is this specific killing, and only this specific killing.
 
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"A Muslim father and his two sons tied up his teen daughter and drowned her in a swamp because they believed her “Western behavior” was shaming their family, according to Dutch prosecutors.

The body of Ryan Al Najjar, 18, was found gagged, bound with tape and submerged in a marsh May 28, 2024, six days after she vanished from the family’s home"

Is this the cultural enlightenment and enrichment people keep telling us?
 
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Not so long the very christian nation of Ireland basically enslaved women who got pregnant out of wedlock and let their children die from neglect.

Less enlightened societies tend to treat their vulnerable members badly. Nothing new.
So we should stop importing those less enlightened societies into our country.
 
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Then what is the topic? Do you want to talk about domestic violence in foreign countries? I didn't realize you were so concerned about that.
It's okay. Everytime you guys derail one of my threads, I'll just create another one.
 
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Is this the cultural enlightenment and enrichment people keep telling us?
No, it's what happens when there is no cultural enlightenment and enrichment.
 
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No, it's what happens when there is no cultural enlightenment and enrichment.
So you agree with Trump about barring immigration unless the person can be a net benefit to society.
 
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Honor killings are a cultural phenomenon and not related to religion.

Honour killing is not restricted to the Muslim communities. It is paramount to realize the cross-cultural dimension of honour killing. It is not restricted by class, caste, region or religion.

Not being 100% restricted to a certain ideology isn't the same thing as not being related to something about that ideology.


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Countries with Highest Documented Rates:​


1. Pakistan - Consistently reports around 1,000 cases annually NCBI, with the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan reporting 1,100 cases in 2015 Sage Journals. Pakistan is widely believed to have the highest absolute numbers globally.

2. India - Records approximately 1,000 honor killings per year Hbv-awareness, with nearly one-third of worldwide honor killings occurring in India and Pakistan combined Asu.

3. Iran - Reported 8,000 honor killings between 2010 and 2014 Sage Journals, with academic estimates citing 375-450 such killings occurring annually GOV.UK.

4. Turkey - The Council of Europe estimated over 200 women were murdered in honor killings in 2007 Wikipedia, with reports of one honor killing per week in Istanbul alone.

5. Syria - Some estimates suggest more than 200 honor killings occur annually Wikipedia, with increases reported during the civil war.

6. Jordan - An average of 23 women are killed annually for honor, representing approximately 30% of total murders Sage Journals.

7. Iraq/Iraqi Kurdistan - The Free Women's Organization of Kurdistan reported 6,082 women killed or forced to commit suicide in 2015 Wikipedia, with many attributed to honor-related violence.

8. Afghanistan - 243 cases were registered between March 2011 and April 2013 according to the Afghanistan Independent Human Rights Commission NCBI.

9. Yemen - 400 women were victims of honor killings in 1997 NCBI.

10. Egypt - 52 cases were reported in 1997 NCBI.



Are we noticing any themes or patterns here?



If we were looking at the aspects surrounding negative attitudes toward contraception access, comprehensive sex ed, or stem cell research in the US...

Me being able to find a relatively tiny handful of liberal non-Christians who oppose those things wouldn't negate the reality that those attitudes are predominately found within (and outgrowths of) conservative Christian culture.
 
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