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I don't know... That attitude does make things "easy" but I can hypothesize a lot of scenarios where this wouldn't have been obvious to them. For one thing, he was 22 and likely not even having lived at home for a few years. Second, this is the age where a lot of mental illnesses start popping up. Somebody brought up in a conservative religious household would've likely had a lot of practice disciplining themselves to put on a good face in public or code switching to act nicely around others.
I realize it's a piece of fiction, but the Netflix show Adolescence dealt with this situation very well.
It takes an honest person to acknowledge the truth. Parents see a lot of things they don’t want to admit and it starts pretty young. They’ll focus on the good stuff and ignore the problems. Because it’s not their child or they’re really special or misunderstood and the like. They’ve been confronted with proof and still deny it. I didn’t see this often growing up but I definitely saw it with millennials.
~bella
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