Carl Emerson said:
"A belief in Grace alone makes God into a tyrant."
It’s not grace that makes God seem like a tyrant. It’s the distortion of grace into something irresistible and coercive that does. The Bible says, “The grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men” (Titus 2:11). That grace teaches and invites, but never forces. God offering salvation through grace to all, while holding individuals accountable for their response, is perfectly just and consistent with His love and holiness. Coercion is not grace.
You said:
Yes, revelation is primary. But reason is not its enemy. God calls us to reason with Him (Isaiah 1:18), and the Spirit of truth helps us understand divine revelation (John 16:13). Reason, under the light of revelation, leads to clarity, not contradiction. There is nothing spiritual about rejecting thoughtful, Spirit-led reasoning based on Scripture.
You said:
“You assume foreknowledge in Romans 8:29 means foresight of works. It’s relational.”
Romans 8:29 says, “Whom He did foreknow, He also did predestinate.” The Greek word proginōskō literally means to know beforehand. This is confirmed by 1 Peter 1:2, which says believers are “elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father.” That foreknowledge includes God's knowledge of how we would respond to His call. Jacob and Esau were chosen for roles, not salvation. Esau was rejected for his future rebellion (Hebrews 12:16 to 17). This is not about arbitrary love or hate, but God acting in perfect knowledge of future decisions.
You said:
“Giving man a real choice puts man at the center.”
This is a mischaracterization. God giving man a choice magnifies His sovereignty, not man’s importance. God is still the author of salvation, the initiator of grace, and the Judge of all. Joshua 24:15 says, “Choose you this day whom ye will serve.” God clearly honors human responsibility while maintaining His rule over all. Real love requires a real choice.
You said:
“It’s not evasion. It’s avoiding endless destructive arguments.”
Avoiding dialogue when Scripture is being presented is not wisdom. It is evasion. Proverbs 27:17 says, “Iron sharpeneth iron.” Paul reasoned with people from the Scriptures (Acts 17:2), and Peter told believers to be ready to give an answer (1 Peter 3:15). Truth does not fear discussion. It thrives in it. To avoid biblical challenges is to shield one’s position from correction.
You said:
“To the chosen, God’s love is irresistible.”
Scripture refutes the idea that God’s grace is irresistible. Acts 7:51 says, “Ye do always resist the Holy Ghost.” Jesus Himself lamented over Jerusalem, saying, “How often would I have gathered thy children together, and ye would not” (Matthew 23:37). God’s love invites, but it does not override the will. Forced love is not love at all. It is control, which God does not use to bring about genuine faith.
You said:
“God’s choice is not arbitrary. It is divine.”
That is a distinction without a difference if God’s choice is disconnected from foreseen faith. According to Scripture, God judges every man according to his deeds (Romans 2:6). The elect are chosen through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth (2 Thessalonians 2:13). If God’s choosing is not rooted in anything seen or known in the person, especially faith, then it is by definition arbitrary. Divine choice does not mean blind choice.
You said:
“Romans 9 says it all. That’s all I’m saying.”
Romans 9 does not say what you are claiming it says. It must be read in context with the rest of the book of Romans, especially chapters 9 through 11.
The whole point of Romans 9 was written with the Jew in mind, how they were trying to earn salvation by “Works Alone Salvationism” (without God's grace through Jesus Christ), and how they believed they found favor with God based on their nationality, in that they were God's people, Israel.
Romans 9:6 to 8 is a refutation of the Israelites' false belief in salvific nationalism.
Romans 9:9 to 16 is a refutation of the Israelites' false belief in “Works Alone Salvationism” (without Jesus and His grace), but salvation is by him who calls upon the name of the Lord Jesus (compare Romans 9:11 with Romans 10:13).
Romans 9:17 to 18 sets up the dilemma for the Israelites, being saved by God's grace and mercy on His terms. Pharaoh was hardened on God's terms, in that we know a person's heart is hardened by their own sin. For a believer who sins and hardens his heart, he can then fall into unbelief and depart from the living God (see Hebrews 3:12 to 15). Sin is the breaking of the Law or commandment (1 John 3:4). The Israelite was hardening his heart against God on account of his sin or disobedience to the command to believe in Jesus (1 John 3:23).
Romans 9:19 is the Israelite complaining, asking how God can find fault because they believe they are doing God's will as Israelites.
Romans 9:20 is a voice answering the Israelite and criticizing him. The voice asks a question from the Israelite’s perspective, “Why have you made me this way [i.e., as an Israelite, a keeper of the Law]?”
When reading Romans 9:21 to 23, we have to keep in mind that God elects based on His foreknowledge, His future foreknowledge of what they are going to do (1 Peter 1:1 to 2). The language present in this passage is reminiscent of Jeremiah 18, about how God will form the clay based upon how a nation responds. If a nation does not hear His voice, He will turn back from the good He intended to do unto them. God warns Jerusalem and Judah that He frames evil against them unless they repent. Meaning, based on what we do, a person will fall into one of two categories, the resurrection of life and the resurrection of the damned (the vessels of wrath and mercy). God will render to every man according to his deeds (see Romans 2:6).
Romans 9:30 to 32 clarifies what was being said:
“What shall we say then? That the Gentiles, which followed not after righteousness, have attained to righteousness, even the righteousness which is of faith. But Israel, which followed after the law of righteousness, hath not attained to the law of righteousness. Wherefore? Because they sought it not by faith, but as it were by the works of the law. For they stumbled at that stumblingstone” (Romans 9:30 to 32).
Romans 11:11 reaffirms this conclusion:
“…rather through their fall salvation is come unto the Gentiles, for to provoke them to jealousy.”
So Romans 9 is really not talking about Calvinistic Unconditional Election.
Even the word “call” used in Romans 9 about God's calling does not prove that God is forcing anything upon a person.
“For many are called, but few are chosen” (Matthew 22:14).