So you belong to this secret sect of Christians which has existed since the beginning of Christianity and are the only real Christians, having believed in the literal inerrancy of the Bible even before it existed. Nobody else is a real Christian, even if they think they are. Got it.
I figure your offense is not ultimately with me, but with the Word of God. Your avoidance to engaging in discussing it is noted.
In His Word you would readily find answers to your confusion over: how God has always chosen a remnant, how faith in His Word was exercised before being written down (hint: through believing the prophets in the OT times and oral accounts of Jesus in the NT times), and that, yes, there are and have always been genuine Christians and fraudulent ones ("Not all who say to me, Lord, Lord..." - sound familiar?). I encourage you to study His Word for yourself, if you do not already do so. That does take a willingness, though.
One point of contention. This is purely my opinion, but I don't believe that anyone who isn't saved truly believes in their heart that they are - not via atonement - because they don't really believe God raised Jesus from the dead (Romans 10:8-10) - no matter how adamantly they identify as Christian. They preach a religion rather than a relationship.
Otherwise, they would receive His Spirit, they would believe what He says, they would proclaim it as written, and they would strive to obey His living commands - in gratitude for His grace, mercy and compassion.
Jesus, and His Words, are a rock of offense to some. To others, they are Life. We each ultimately make our own choice...
John 6:65-70 NIV
"He went on to say, “This is why I told you that no one can come to me unless the Father has enabled them.”
From this time many of his disciples turned back and no longer followed him.
“You do not want to leave too, do you?” Jesus asked the Twelve.
Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We have come to believe and to know that you are the Holy One of God.”
And Peter again:
1 Peter 2:4-10 ESV
"As you come to him, a living stone rejected by men but in the sight of God chosen and precious, you yourselves like living stones are being built up as a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ. For it stands in Scripture:
“Behold, I am laying in Zion a stone,
a cornerstone chosen and precious,
and whoever believes in him will not be put to shame.”
So the honor is for you who believe, but for those who do not believe,
“The stone that the builders rejected
has become the cornerstone,” and
“A stone of stumbling,
and a rock of offense.”
They stumble because they disobey the word, as they were destined to do."
"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Once you were not a people, but now you are God's people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy."
God bless us all!
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